hardshoulder

About Me:

I'm a bright, funny and charming man who loves wit, femininity and style in a lover. I have a stable home life that I will always protect from harm, but after 20 years of good behaviour I found that I needed more.

I'm here to find someone for the kind of encounter that stays in your head for long after it might have burned itself into ashes.

I have had 2 brilliant affairs (and one psycho stalker) since my descent into this hell-hole. I have loved each one of the affairs and evaded the stalky loon.

Behind the scenes, I'm an entrepreneur who runs a few businesses in the media/communications world.

I'm a driven man in my professional life, but pretty relaxed away from it all. I have lots of freedom to meet because I run my own diary, and I travel lots in the UK and Europe.

I'm a romantic in my head and a realist in my heart, which might explain why I'm here. I'm tall, strong and almost an alpha male. I don't quite qualify though because of my love of poetry and theatre. I guess that saves me from being a ridiculous male stereotype, but I have to admit, that when the moment is right and lights are low, I like to be a real man and much less gentlemanly in the bedroom than out.

I dress without help and I'm reasonably stylish for a man, and often in a suit because I have to be, but I prefer the more casual approach.

I’m 6’2” tall, broad, and adult in thought and word. I'm able to mix in most circles, and I can’t do one night stands because I like the intimacy that a more real connection brings.

Some people think me handsome. Not just my sainted, late mother.

Ideal Partner:

You're confident, stylish and smart. You're here because you want to find a real connection with another person with responsibilities. A connection deeper than the simply physical, though the physical matters. So if you like the idea of laughter, great food, culture, late night walks in dark streets, lots of flirting and talking. If you love kissing and taking time. If you bring life and joy to the room, and like the same in return, I think we might get on pretty well.

Other Interests:

Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Politics, Literature / History, Golf, Gym / Aerobics, Martial Arts, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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