Pakman100

About Me:

Quietly ambitious, introspective, and always thinking a few layers deeper than I let on. I work in the non-profit space — something that keeps me grounded and connected to a purpose, though I don’t wear it on my sleeve.

I’m someone who values stillness as much as connection. I enjoy my own space and don’t need constant noise around me — but I’m also looking for someone I can truly share that space with. Think: meaningful conversations over tea, comfortable silences, and the kind of connection where nothing feels forced.

Apparently I’m an INFJ, which is rare (especially for men), but it makes sense — I crave depth over small talk and connection over performance. I’m open to something casual, but if we click on that deeper level, I’m open to wherever that might lead.

My ideal evening? A quiet night in, good company, and nowhere else to be.
My ideal getaway? Istanbul — there’s something about the city that speaks to me in a way few places ever have. If soul cities exist, that one’s mine.

Ideal Partner:

I’m looking for something casual to begin with — meaningful, but unpressured. I believe the best connections start gently and grow with time, not timelines. I’m not here to force something into a shape it’s not meant to take, but I am open to more if it feels right with the right person.

That said, I am a bit of a romantic — the quiet kind. I find charm in small moments: a shared silence that feels easy, a well-timed look, a conversation that takes its time. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally aware, thoughtful, and able to find beauty in the slower pace of things.

If you’re kind, grounded, and appreciate sincerity over spectacle, we’ll probably get along. And if you think a quiet night in with good company beats just about anything else — I think we already have something in common.

Other Interests:

Nature, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking

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