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ArtemisInSilk

50, London

Married, Slim body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: See how it goes

Caucasian/White, Non-Smoker, Light / Social Drinker

Occupation: Government
Education: Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour: Green
Hair Colour: Blonde
Religion: Catholic

Looking for Male between the ages of 44 and 60

Star Sign: Leo
Last Active: Online Now!!

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About Me:

God made me tall and beautiful but I keep myself slim and fit.

I'm privately educated, (degree and MSc) and successful, and I want a man who feels the same way about himself. I'm not looking for validation, the 'love of my life' or emotional support. You aren't either. You've got to a stage in life where you don't have to work all the hours God sends anymore because you are where you want to be. Now you're looking for the finer things in life, as I am. You want an affair to be one of those finer things. You want someone you can laugh with, flirt outrageously with and have scintillating conversations with because you are the kind of man who is attracted to a woman with a keen intellect as well as long slim legs.

I'm not looking for an exit affair and neither are you. I will never tell you how to live your life. I'm looking to add to my life not subtract from it and so are you.

I have pretty strong views on many topics. You need to be the sort of person who isn't intimidated by this. I rarely take things so seriously that I can't laugh or concede defeat. I say that - but I have to admit that I seriously hate it when I don't win the argument. Actually I don't like losing at all. Ever. I am probably a pretty bad loser. But you know the saying; 'show me a good loser...'

I like to pretend I can ski but in reality I'm pretty rubbish; two broken ankles and a torn meniscus has taught me that I'm not a natural. I would love to blame the skis...

I'm afraid I just don't do cheap hotels, Pizza Express or anything else second rate or 'bargain basement' because life is just too short to sleep in uncomfortable beds, eat dreadful food or drink cheap wine.

Please don't use text lingo like 'lol', whine about your wife or 'dead bedroom', have some weird unsubtle sexual username or use chatgpt to write your profile.
Please be polite to a fault, because good manners are incredibly sexy. I would add 'honourable and honest' - but we're here so we'll both have to leave that box blank...

I'm not interested in ONS (One Night Stands). If that's your 'thing'; good for you, no judgement - but it's not mine. I'm also not a Sub, again if you're a Dom and that floats your boat; great - go find it; just not with me.

I shouldn't even have to repeat, but I will; that I do not wish to change my or your situation. That should be an absolute given. I'm looking to enhance my life and yours; not take a sledgehammer to it!

Ideal Partner:

You're tall and broad shouldered, well educated, funny and calm. You are the kind of person who remembers my favourite wine and strokes my hand (or knee!) while we talk and you can make me laugh. You have an endearing smile in addition to a few well placed laughter lines.

You want an affair; an affair partner, not a girlfriend and you understand the difference. You also understand that I have a life - which includes family commitments, friends and travel - and that I therefore can't reply instantly or even always daily to messages. (I expect you to be similarly busy.)

I just want a really good old-fashioned fun affair with a lovely educated man who fundamentally understands what an affair is. I want an affair partner who wants an affair partner; I don't want a boyfriend who wants a girlfriend.

You completely understand that an affair is an environment where we bring the best of ourselves and rediscover who we were before marriage, kids and arguments over the banalities of the quotidian. Before those daily grievances replaced all the spontaneity and passion. Neither of us brings that baggage with us. We just bring wit, and maybe not much wisdom given where we both are, but we bring as much as we have to spare. Then we part happily until the next time you're in town.