SecretMinx

About Me:

To most I come across as such a good girl: well mannered, well spoken, intelligent, articulate and married to an entirely appropriate husband.


With beautiful manners, a filthy mind and a healthy interest in - and, reportedly, talent for - sex, I’m fit and flirty but committed to a loving marriage with a kind man who happens never to have had much of a libido.

For years I was too naive and hopeful to realise any of this: now I’m looking for a lover who is in a similar position with whom I can fill in the gaps.


I love to please and am looking for someone who is happy to take control in the bedroom and help me discover everything I still want to experience (although I am not looking to sub for a dom - I do love to submit, but not all the time). I’ve been here before and have loved my journey of discovery so far, yet I still have much to explore and discover in (and hopefully outside) the bedroom.



Always appropriately and impeccably dressed (or wantonly undressed) for every occasion... I love to kiss but I also have a wild side that demands attention... I am sensual, fun and relaxed - and very open minded.


Warm, generous and emotionally intelligent, I enjoy good company and conversation, fine food and wine, film, and making the most of opportunities that come my way. I love to dance, drive and fly (although not all at the same time)!



My job involves working with smart, successful people (you should be too) and allows flexibility for daytime and occasional evening meetings during the week. Weekends possible with planning.



I’ve eaten in some of the finest restaurants in the world. I’m not after a meal ticket or distraction from a boring other life. I’m seeking satisfaction, fun and discretion with a like-minded friend. Sure we’ll meet for coffee to check the chemistry is electric, but thereafter we will hopefully spend most of our time naked together in a hotel room (or other discreet location) exploring, talking and laughing…



I stand just at exactly 5'7" in my bare feet (and am geeky enough to have measured to ensure I’m in the right category), but love to wear heels. I wear a size 12-14 dress size and 34E bra and am in proportion.

I have been complimented on my shapely legs and bum. I suppose that I might be described as having a strong/athletic build and a slim figure. Curves in all the right places though, apparently... My mid section has definition but if you're offended to see a bit of a 'muffin-top' when I sit down I'm not for you. I have brown eyes, defined cheek-bones, full lips and a button nose. Oh - and if the dark hair, pale skin, Nigella aesthetic (defined waist, generous cleavage, flat tummy, a pert bum and shapely legs) is not to your taste then I probably won’t be either. Note that I am more Amazonian than petite.

Absolute discretion is expected and assured.

Ideal Partner:

I am looking for a confident, dare I say powerful, lover in a similar position to me; still loving and not wanting to leave their spouse, but finding themselves frustrated on the physical side. Discretion, integrity and mutual respect are important. 


If you’re intelligent, professional, emotionally mature, but a kinky, horny beast and your home situation is now entirely platonic maybe we have something in common to offer each other.



I am seeking enough of an emotional connection to feel safe and secure and to make the sex really good, but absolutely not any involvement that would jeopardise my marriage.



So, someone, tall, intelligent, kinky, ravenous, well equipped - and with a good sense of both humour and rhythm will fit the bill!

I want to be able to lose myself - surrender even - and have a huge amount of sexy fun with my lover. So please also be kind, tactile, sensual and respectful.



Since I love to wear heels and still look up to you please be firmly in the 6ft+ category. I also love broad shoulders, a deep chest and some substance. If you tend to a muscular build that's great but there's no need to be ripped. I take care of my body and have no desire to bump my head on a paunch when on my knees in front of you! Having said all that, pease just be 6ft+ tall, in good shape and in proportion!



As to looks - it's in the eyes for me guys, and I find a hungry and intelligent look the most handsome and sexy look, and otherwise anything goes.



Intelligence is being able to string a few sentences together with some wit and humour! If you can't be bothered to write a profile but have relied on the profile wizard I won't respond, and similarly an initial message that doesn’t reference something specific about my profile is not going to turn me on to you either.

 I am sapio-sexual and you should be too.



You should be based in London or visit very regularly, with availability for daytime assignations.

Thank you for reading this far. If you’re tall, smart and hungry, and excited by what you’ve read please send a message which demonstrates that you’ve read this far x

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