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About Me:

Hi there!

Thank you for looking at my profile.
I'm 46, married and live on the cusp of the Surrey/Sussex boarder, but work in central London 2/3 days a week.

My personality is: INFP (A Mediator)

I'm quite a spiritual soul, and hoping to find someone who is also spiritual and open minded.
Feel free to add me as a favourite, and hopefully we can chat more?


Please pass me by if:



* You work in a dungeon

* You want £400 for a mortgage payment

* Wanting £15 for some heels

* Exchanging sex for a £100 game card

* Would like some Nando vouchers

* You want me to follow you on Only Fans

* You're a webcam chick

* Your husband wants to film us having sex

* Only date men with double barrelled-surnames

* You want me to fund your flight from Ghana

* You want to wear a strap on and bonk me

* You're a man pretending to be a woman!!!

* You only drink champagne

* Admit your picture is actually your daughter

* You want to pee on me

* You're on bail

* You once use to be a man

* You want me to hire a dungeon room for £150

* Wanting bitcoin to pay your hotel bill in Egypt
* I have to pay your travel costs if we meet
* Your last IE encounter got you pregnant
* Ask if I have a slave name
* Want me to sign a 2 month £135 BDSM contract
* Your husband will be in another room if we meet
* Having 3-4 men in an evening!!!
* You miss dogging
* You want financial help to pay off your car!

I think this list is getting longer!

Ideal Partner:

Ideally someone who is trustworthy and discreet.



I'm not seeking a harem of women online, so seeking one special lady, that is seeking a longterm meaningful affair.



If your profile name contains the words: MILF, 69, Slut or Horny, then you're not for me.


Everyone has a Higher Self, but maybe not on the same level as others.

I'm here to find that connection with someone.
Hopefully our Higher Selfs want to connect and make something happen :-)

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Astrology / New Age, Gardening, Billiards / Pool / Darts, Music - Alternative, Music - Dance / Electronic, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf, Shopping, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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