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About Me:

No fake avatar here, just the real me. I'm good-bad. Also slim, late-middle aged (ouch, that's the truth), easy going, mojo working. I'd love to meet someone looking for the same as me: a (sex) life with passion + a nice friendship and connection. My cherry red heart beats in anticipation.

So why here, why now? Well, my wife has long-term health issues which ended our sex life. So here I am, and I know this 'place' can work. But, even given my situation, it has to be super discreet both ways - not looking to end my marriage. Quality time when we meet is important, but only my daytimes are free (weekends too).

I have kind of mediterranean looks, I'm not too tall (5ft5), pretty good looking and my head is shaved. I dress fashionably smart casual. Stupidly over educated and self employed. I'm chatty, funny, demonstrative and a good communicator; I'm nice company. I'm a Londoner from north of the river but happy to travel across or out of the big bad city.

Ideal Partner:

No unreasonable demands from me about specific looks or size or age - the magic will happen if it happens. Just nice, just genuine and I guess someone lovely who is looking for the same as me. A preference for something medium or long term.

And ladies, why so many superficial 'wants' and 'musts'? Where's the chattiness, the passion, the sense of fun? And so many of you seek perfection too. Personally, I'm attracted to the imperfect. Obviously not keen on game-players or fibbers either (...ho hum).

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Alternative, Music - Dance / Electronic, Literature / History

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