Mr Songhai

About Me:

I enjoy good friendships and value intimate relationships - which is what I'm looking for. I’m reasonably well educated - degree/masters. . Love to see others happy and and make them laugh. I’m never the life and soul of the party - I’m a little too reserved for that. I’m dedicated and loyal ( don’t ask me to explain the obvious irony in that). Despite being on the site It’s who I am.

Going out ... like restaurants and dinning out the most , but can very easily go with the flow when I’m out. Don’t see as much theatre as I would like to. Want to do much more of that. Also, It’s been ages since I’ve danced the night away. I do enjoy that too.

I love music, sport and film. All types of music, but if I was narrow down to a few genres it would be - soul, r&b, pop, country. As for films - drama, indie- anything that has great dialogue- good story and makes you think. Prefer happy endings than other ending. Shawshank / As good as it gets. As for sport like football most. Enjoy other sports - boxing, tennis, golf.

I’m a professional - work hard, but need to play hard too . Not looking for flings - they are hardly (1)physically fulfilling and never (2) emotionally or (3) intellectually satisfying. I want someone who wants all three and yet is not looking to change mine or their own situation.

I have a more old fashioned affair in mind. To me that is about being respectful of each other - physically, emotionally and of each other’s wants, needs and peculiarities.

With all that said. I am keen and willing to embrace different things.

I work in central London. I'm about 5ft 11, I do keep fit and I am slim. Physical attributes- ask for password. Photos are all 2022

Ideal Partner:

I’m looking for something emotionally, intellectually and physically satisfying. A long term friendship with an intelligent independent minded woman in a similar situation or is okay with an attached man

Someone who cares ... about things, cares about people. Has her own politics but is comfortable with others having theirs. Someone who is genuinely not intimidated by diversity and difference.

Style wise ... has her own style, feels comfortable in a range of situations and can switch between smart, professional and casual.

I like women who are smart and engaging. I do like attractive. I must admit that obvious physical attributes are all appealing to me. However obvious physical attributes are not all that matter - slim, tall, petite, curvy... there will be something about you - I would attracted to the special things that make you, you.

Well off, or not, I don’t really care. but if you’re vain and materialistic, I’m afraid that there is a really good chance we won’t get on.

You are most likely someone who is in a relationship and therefore has something to lose. Therefore, like me, wants discretion and is not looking to change their current situation. . Having said that ...I’m not after a one night stand or NSA affair. I don’t think I’m capable of not caring. But neither am I looking to find my next “till death do us part”. That is not for me. So Ideally, you’d want something in between as as well.

You could be a busy professional type. You could have more time on your hands, staying at home. It doesn’t matter. What’s important is you’d like the time we share count.

Other Interests:

Music - Country, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics, Singing / Playing Instrument, Dancing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine, Music - Hip Hop

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