AlfredChen79

About Me:

Hi there, been married a long time - even though we remain good friends and are committed to our family, the spark is well and truly gone. A Healthcare Professional, I work far too hard and started to realise there is more to life than just work and family. Specially after seeing what this Pandemic can do to many of my colleagues. I truly believe life is to be lived to it's fullest and not meant to be taken too seriously. To live every moment as if it's your last and give every love you have to give. You only live once so as to make the most of it. Work hard and play harder ;)

I am 6 feet tall, athletic build, broad shoulders and absolutely no beer belly - because I do not do beer :) I like to keep in shape, I am into endurance cycling, cross trainers and I love to combine the great outdoors with landscape photography, hiking and waking up in a tent by a lake. I also enjoy reading a lot, what interests me is medieval history, true crime, philosophy and fact based documentaries. I have been told I dress up smartly, look good and have a very calm and confident demeanour. But, when with friends - I love to banter, kick up a storm and have loads of fun and laughter, but that has become a distant memory due to my busy work schedule and family commitments.

I am specialist in my field and have post-graduate qualifications. I travel extensively due to work and can be away from home frequently. I know how to treat a lady in an upmarket restaurant with champagne, but also pamper her in an exclusive safari style lodge getaway, where I cook her the meal she loves and keep her enchanted with quirky conversations. I could be very discreet and know how to keep my distance when not in need - pun intended.

In my spare time I love to research into facts I have learnt, listening to music, occasional movies and eating out. I am also into fun, excitement with a penchant of meeting-up with smart and sexy people.

Ideal Partner:

At the moment - what I am looking for is a Swedish Masseuse :)

Jokes aside - I am looking for someone who is fun, exciting and doesn't take life too seriously. Who understands that life is not just about helping others but also to take rightfully what belongs to them - that is fun, laughter, pleasure and enjoyment. You can only truly give if you have received abundantly. I am looking for someone - who is fun, have a positive attitude in life, understand that life is complicated and it's not all black and white as it seems, but a lot of grey in between. Who understands that one can be in love with more than two people at the same time (even though the intensity differs) without hurting anyone because certain things in life is not as straight forward as it seems. Would like to meet like minded people who values life and would love to enjoy it as much as possible, because you only get one shot at it.

I don't have a particular type but personality matters. Nothing is more sexier than brains. Looks and personality will fall in place - but what impresses me most is your outlook in life, positivity and the penchant to having fun.

With no disrespect to ladies who are just looking - there are plenty out there who are looking to compare their lives with others, just to make themselves feel better! If you are one of them window shoppers/ time wasters then please jog on. I am afraid - I have no time for 50% of members here, who do not have to pay to be on site - but if you are genuinely looking for some fun, friendship, laughter, with a desire to meet interesting people, also have a flare of getting the most out of life, those who dare to bare, then please ping me a message. 🤩😘

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Country, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Cycling, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Motor Racing, Dancing, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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