Mysecret012

About Me:

I will start with what I am looking for.

Simple: an affair. And all that entails. I don’t want my home situation to change, and don’t want to change anyone else’s. I will be totally discreet and expect the same. I am looking for someone who will enjoy the process of getting to know each other, the seduction, the good company, and yes the sex, and will not be playing with other people at the same time. I will be your one sin, and you will be mine.

Above all, it must be fun! It must delight us both, give us that spark we have been missing, the intimacy we crave, the desire and passion and satisfaction that has disappeared from our lives.

Give a little of yourself, take a chance, and if this is what you are looking for as well we can give each other some epic memories.

Now, to how I look. This matters because, like for me, there needs to be a physical attraction to go along with everything else we are looking for. I am tall, slim, fit, and take care of myself and my appearance, and if a shaved head and glasses don’t do it for you, please move on. At 56 I am looking more lived in than I used to, but I’m very comfortable with that and have no unreasonable expectations on anyone else either.

Next, about me. While I am obviously a cad and a bounder for being on this site in the first place, that aside I treat people with honesty, courtesy and respect. I am neither needy nor clingy, I don’t manipulate or play power games, I am straight and expect the same in return.

That’s the hard stuff out of the way, so moving on to the rest: I am a bit of a romantic who loves the excitement of a connection with another person, those butterflies before a meeting, the knowledge of a secret other, covert messages and quiet smiles at the thought of that person. That connection is at least as important as the physical relationship and is essential for me. For the physical relationship, I am an experienced, passionate and creative lover, delighting in pleasuring my partner. I am very tactile and love the erotic, the sensual, the tantalising touch.

Generally, I love reading, music, walking, the countryside, pub lunches, travel, good food and wine, and most of all stimulating and interesting company. I am well-travelled and open-minded, easy going and love a good laugh.

If you’ve read this far, I already admire your stamina! I’m not as serious as I sound, I genuinely want a long-term, fun, exciting relationship with someone like-minded, and I can promise you a memorable experience.

For the practical side of things, I have some flexibility during the week day, as well as in the evenings. I will want to communicate often and meet regularly, but understand the restrictions we will both be operating under.

Let's live a little.

Ideal Partner:

See above!

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Music - World, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Religion, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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