Countess J

About Me:

I am articulate, seductive, cultured, educated, confident, painfully bossy and capable of getting what I want, when I want it. That's right, I enjoy being in charge and prefer to meet a man who desires and craves an assertive and Dominant female.

I collect Asian art and antiquities. I also enjoy sailing the Narragansett Bay in the summer, long weekends in Martha's Vineyard, Mediterranean vacations, blended whiskey (Haig Club), champagne (Verve Cliquot), a "dirty" vodka martini (shaken not stirred), classical music, the opera, the theatre, flea markets, long drives along the English countryside, avant garde jazz, petite filet mignon (medium) and sushi.

In the past I have helped to rescue retired race horses and in turn have them trained as therapy horses to treat veterans suffering from post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), general anxiety disorder (GAD) and depression.

Ideal Partner:

My Dominant personality suggests that I am most compatible with a "submissive" man who is educated, cultured, well spoken, financially secure, neat in appearance and possesses impeccable manners & hygiene. It is important for me to connect with an individual who is mentally and emotionally mature. I find that a "submissive" man who craves the strict guidance of a Dominant female makes an ideal candidate for such a dynamic. One should definitely seek to consider the evolution of his own submission as a priority.

Please do NOT confuse submission with weakness. On the contrary submissive men are much stronger emotionally than their vanilla counterparts. Why, because it takes great strength to openly turn over your love and complete trust to a Dominant Woman when the world is telling you otherwise.

My precious time is divided between London, Fort Lauderdale & New York City. Seeking a long term relationship that is mutually beneficial is my only goal. Not interested in you leaving your spouse or partner. Just be sincere and humble! Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Simplicity at its finest.

I am a non smoker so please be respectful of my choice not to be around plumes of cigarette smoke. Excessive drinking and use of illegal drugs are absolute deal breakers.

I AM "NOT" INTERESTED IN CASUAL SEX or RECEIVING PHOTOS OF YOUR PATHETIC PENIS!

Finally, I will not hide the fact that I enjoy being pampered and spoiled by the right man. Unfortunately not all men are worthy.... n'est ce pas?

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Shopping, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Food and Wine

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