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50, cambridge/harrogate

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Living Together, Athletic body
6'0'' (183cm) or above
Looking for: See how it goes

Other,  Non-Smoker,  Non-Drinker

Occupation:  Other
Education:  Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Other

Looking for Female between the ages of 23 and 60

Star Sign: Taurus
Last Active: Within 24 Hours

About Me:

Short: busy professional who seeks like-minded partner-in-crime for discreet companionship intentionally tactile, tantric and patient.


The art of touch. Does one need to say more?

Tall, fit, take life seriously but with laughter, humor and a light touch. It means I will take you seriously, listen, touch, joke and care within the limits provided. Enjoyment we seek. Am a tall fit brown-haired version of DL (initials of an actor).

Given our surroundings, propose to meet casually for an activity in a public space that is rewarding whether or not there is a mental or physical chemistry between us. We can take it from there by meeting each other as strangers, accidentally, while talking about what we see during our activity. So prefer to meet in person and see you in 3D -

While living in Manchester, we meet elsewhere. Work brings us at Leeds, Sheffield or Wakefield, Cambridge. These cities have plenty of public activities where we can meet and walk around casually as if we are, and we are, just strangers having a conversation.

Not being a fan of 2D conversation, we limit our electronic exchange to a minimum. Again, prefer to meet in person and see you in 3D. Simply choose the above and enjoy or pass by and reject. Meeting will be civilised and pleasant. In principle no sharing of images.

No texting, unsafe; we make a bespoke email account at some point after some chatting here with a pen-name and safe provider . We understand that such matters are important and part of being civilised and respectful.

If you are not from around my neck of the wood, then I generally don't reply. Oh, I like to sing by the way, funny and dirty songs. The latter songs generally being sexist I modify them to apply to the male sex to balance out matters. Join in if you wish and can handle it.

Hi, hi, suppose the above is the long-winded way of saying: someone normal and with common sense, which is indeed not the norm. Edoc-woleb. Confusing, isn't it?

Ideal Partner:

Short: you are a busy professional (preferably in Yorkshire) who seeks like-minded partner-in-crime for discreet companionship intentionally tactile, tantric and patient. Find the cues?

You enjoy being ...

Medium: In one of the last Borovski's, a man is found drowned in his bathtub, on a German Insel, near Kiel. His partner was out for her morning swim. Marks on the arms and head indicate murder. Drowning. The partner has blocked out her memories but Borovski spots an inconsistency and the story unravels. She has killed her partner while he gave her cunnilingus under water in the bathtub and in the heat of the moment while she is coming, and pressing he arms down against the edge of the tub he drowns. Subsequently, she blocks the memory and goes swimming. I want you to drown my like that after a few meets, whilst I pleasure you. I want to die. With every fast train that passes on the platform, I think, why don't I jump? Be it is messy for the poor train driver, my wife and my junior staff. But otherwise, if one amongst a group would have to jump, I do it. I had a failed affair. Cunnilingus, prolonged, was an integral part. I got dumped rucksichtlos when I found out she was going strange twice, unprotected twice. Who cares, she said, you are already cheating. Sure my death wish is completely nuts. I sought treatment with NHS. Completely ridiculous in terms of scheduling except for CBT pointing I out I should read, every day. I do, nice, but it makes mo difference. Drown me once you have taught me how to pleasure you. It is the only way to forget the complete despair that hits me at some point every day. Yes, I am completely aware that request is nuts. So what? [I.e. like watching crime noir.]


You care and that defines you. I care and that defines me. Caring defines us in the beginning, in the middle and at the end. As a consequence we will have fun, balanced, along-side our stable relations. Surprise me. Looks are deceiving. Your actions are much more revealing.

I saw it in yr eyes

I saw it in yr eyes
The ecstasy
it made me happy
It made me sad
Haunted memories
reminding me of bliss.

I saw it in yr eyes
The odyssey
It made me happy
As I realised
My ability and joy
To give y pleasure.

I saw it in yr eyes
When y told me how to touch
You, softly nibbling lust
Bringing on our ecstasy
in "magic" mutuality.

Fascinated to read about Diana Athill, who got rejected at the age of 20, never loved anyone ever since, but did find comraderie and sex; she just died at the age of 1001. That resonates: you and I seek comraderie and sex. Comraderie implies a bond but mostly rational, "mon" amie. Hope to meet you "soon". I am from "5691".

Only reply ,proton-ically when you fix the key, of course. There needs to be some challenge to see iff there are street-smart brains.

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