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49, Harrogate

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Living Together, Athletic body
6'0'' (183cm) or above
Looking for: Friendship

Other,  Non-Smoker,  Non-Drinker

Occupation:  Other
Education:  Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Other

Looking for Female between the ages of 23 and 60

Star Sign: Taurus
Last Active: Within 24 Hours

About Me:

Given CV meeting is irresponsible for the next 12-52 wks, so any e-contacts via IE (so here) from all over UK are only option. Stay safe. Happy to chat naughty and otherwise.

Short: busy professional who seeks like-minded partner-in-crime for discreet companionship intentionally tactile, tantric and patient.


The art of touch. Does one need to say more?

Tall, fit, take life seriously but with laughter, humor and a light touch. It means I will take you seriously, listen, touch, joke and care within the limits provided. Enjoyment we seek. Am a tall fit brown-haired version of DL (initials of an actor).

Given our surroundings, propose to meet casually for an activity in a public space that is rewarding whether or not there is a mental or physical chemistry between us. We can take it from there by meeting each other as strangers, accidentally, while talking about what we see during our activity. So prefer to meet in person and see you in 3D,

While living in M, we meet elsewhere. Work brings us at Leeds (a lot) and sometimes London. These cities have plenty of public activities where we can meet and walk around casually as if we are, and we are, just strangers having a conversation.

Not being a fan of 2D conversation, we limit our electronic exchange to a minimum. Again, prefer to meet in person and see you in 3D. Simply choose the above and enjoy or pass by and reject. Meetings will be civilised and pleasant. In principle no sharing of images.

No texting, unsafe; we make a bespoke protonmail account at some point after some chatting here with a pen-name and safe provider. We understand that such matters are important and part of being civilised and respectful.

If you are not from around my neck of the wood, then I generally don't reply. Oh, I like to sing by the way, funny and dirty songs. The latter songs generally being sexist I modify them to apply to the male sex to balance out matters. Join in if you wish and can handle it.

Somewhere being between liberal and socialist, I don't like excessive capitalism (-), which you understand when you are clever enough to catch my drift.

Hi, I suppose the above is the long-winded way of saying: someone normal and with common sense, which is indeed not the norm. Edoc-woleb.

Ideal Partner:

Given CV meeting is irresponsible for the next 12-52 wks, so any e-contacts via IE (so here -) from all over UK are only option. Stay safe. Happy to chat naughty and otherwise. Still prefer 1 contact.

Well, imagine meeting 6 men a year, consecutively say, so over 5 years that is 30 different men. Numbers: 1, 2, 3, ..., 30. Imagine how much fun, f-u-n, that would be. Or I ask the others on here: what is the fun of that? [Replace men by women etc.] That is all yours if you want to. Happy to be your lucky number.

Not interested in the sex-thing because lying is utterly unattractive. People are too untrustworthy on here and the few trustworthy ones too difficult to recognise. Even after a few meets matters can become foul if false promises have been made.
Happy to meet for dinner, drinks, a walk, discussion or other entertainment. In essence, the sex should not become more important than the person. Prove me wrong and I may, or may not, change my sarcastic outlook.

Met only two lovely people on here. Had a lovely dinner and laugh with one but distance and such was an obstacle.
Had two lovely afternoons with someone else, who saved my life, and we are just friends albeit a bit secret.
And then two failures, involving what seemed fine stuff at the time, but when lies surfaced to the extent that they did, all consent completely goes. Something I learned. Lying is utterly unattractive. I have had lovely girlfriends in the past and things passed by without regrets because there were no lies and contempt required. That is not the case here, so I refrain from such sex things and the lack of apparent control that comes along with it. I like sex, may even be good at it, am quite willing to please but not at any cost. My goddess does not exist, dreams shattered, even though I can serve a princess. Maybe that should be enough?

Let us simply entertain each other, laugh, frown and run around, inter-dispersed with serious conversations. Words are pressing enough.

Puskin's poem wraps it up (love therein can also simply be taken as care/commitment, figuratively speaking):

I loved you
I loved you; and perhaps I love you still,
The flame, perhaps, is not extinguished; yet
It burns so quietly within my soul,
No longer should you feel distressed by it.

Silently and hopelessly I loved you,
At times too jealous and at times too shy.
God grant you find another who will love you
As tenderly and truthfully as I.
(BD's translation I liked best sofar)

theangelofdeceit [-]
The Woman who I mistook for my Isis
never was, never was my true love,
only a fata morgana amiss,
one kiss for my real love isn’t enough.

Sex is togetherness, otherwise raPe,
deceitfully cruel for Both of our minds,
it is, it is for the rest of one life,
when I loved you were my fata morgana.

Easy isn't it? I prefer a true feminist but am happy to open the door, and more golb, for you too since it is not the essence of the feminist matter and a nice gesture.

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