GrahamFitz

About Me:

Can we steal some time together and just escape for a bit? We wouldn't be here if we didn't have a need, so let's make the most of the time we have.

About me: I have a wry grin and kind eyes. I'm more comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt than a suit and tie. I'm 5'7", bald and bearded, more Ewan McGregor than Henry Cavill in build. I'm a scientist for a living and enjoy baking, knitting, and making music (do you play or sing?).

I'm on this site because my marriage, although good, is sexless. I'm not looking to change my situation. I've never done this before, but I'm aware there are rules, so I'm being careful until I have learned them.

I live in southeast London and work in the Waterloo area. My most likely availability is during office hours for initial meet-ups and maybe the occasional weekend. Anything overnight would be a challenge.

Ideal Partner:

People often write about feeling butterflies in their tummy but I reckon what most of us want first and foremost is someone we can feel safe with, someone who makes us feel accepted. In my ideal encounter that would be mutual. That to me is the foundation of attraction and is what would give me butterflies.

In terms of the physical, I like cheeky smiles and twinkling eyes. A major attraction is a woman who is utterly at home in her own body. I miss being touched so if you are someone who looks for excuses for even small, innocent touches when on good behaviour that would mean a lot to me.

If your profile says you're looking for a man who is "generous" or "knows how to treat a lady" then I'm passing by, because there are other websites to find women who exchange sex for money and that's not what I'm after.

If you want a broad-shouldered milk tray man to whisk you to glamorous locations, then we're not on the same page. I'm sure it's nice if you can find it, but you won't find it here.

We will click if your end goal is a situation where our stolen time together can be completely relaxed and without judgement. I say end goal because I don't expect to get there straight away, but I do hope you want to get there. I can have good conversation and fun outings with my wife, and while my IE might have those I'm here for what's missing.

Other Interests:

Nature, Music - Blues/Jazz, Politics, Religion, Cycling, Martial Arts, Singing / Playing Instrument, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking

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