AmerettoCocktail

About Me:

I've been here before a couple of times over the last 15 years and always had good experiences.

Usual story I guess for someone my age and one I think is true of many women too: I'm happily married for the most part but missing romance and adventure in a secret friendship. The affairs I've had before have all lasted years and ended regretfully by both parties when circumstances have changed, and I guess I'd like to repeat.

I am not into serial or parallel affairs. I go into this with the intention of an arrangement that will last a long time, years rather than months. Of course things may not work out that way, but that's the call.

Ridiculously fond of online chatting, after all what's the point of an affair if you don't talk? If you're the type who never likes to communicate between dates then please skip by. For me an affair is as much about someone who I can connect with as a friend as it is about sex. My affairs have been everything from full on lovers to friends with benefits, but there's always communication. .

Love cooking and something of a foodie. Fond of the arts, particularly visual (if you get Giotto or Schiele you'll get me) music (classical and gigs) and dance (a straight guy who likes ballet - the shock) but also climbing hills. And travelling. Lots of travelling.

Quite aware that many of us would like to try things we can't get with the partner we raised our kids with, but equally simply making love after a drought is wonderful. Not really after someone who just wants a second husband with functional parts, but equally I don't mind if the Venn diagram intercepts that on occasions - we all need affection sometimes.

I'm tall and reasonably fit - I get to the gym several times a week.

Rather too fond of cats.

Ideal Partner:

Ideally I'm looking for a married or resolutely single woman in a similar position to myself. Total discretion is important and I am not looking (horror) to disrupt any marriages. We're an addition, not a replacement.

I've always liked mature women even when I was young - sophistication is erotic! So really not bothered by age at all. Up to 10 years younger has worked, but fine 10 years older too. Very much a sapiosexual, much less concerned over how you look than how you think.

Someone smart, chatty and culturally savvy hits the spot for me. Someone with whom I can't wait to start chatting with again.

And please someone who knows that the answer to a chat conversation isn't just "yes". I love, absolutely love, talking. But you have to give me something to work with, and of course I'll reciprocate. I want to know what you think, what your opinions are, who you are.

I tend to travel periodically and can get often away for evenings and daytimes, so if you can too that's ideal. Sexually very much into long afternoons or evenings playing, and I really do mean hours. I don't do the 15 mins quickie.

Oh and please someone in Scotland. Anywhere is fine, indeed better to have an affair somewhere you're not living. But beyond isn't practical.

Other Interests:

Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Alternative, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Music - World, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Mountaineering, Water Sports, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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