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About Me:

I am looking for just one person to share a secret and passionate relationship with. I am not looking to have a string of one night stands ( I have only ever been in long term relationships), and am not interested in sleeping with as many people on here as I can. I guess it may appear shallow, but looks do matter to me, and I honestly don't think that things will develop if we both aren't physically attracted to each other, yes personality and a good sense of humour are also important to me, but if there is no chemistry between us, then it's not going to be the passionate and physical relationship that we are both on this site to find.

I would prefer it if you were married or in a similar position to me, in that you are not looking to leave your other half and disappear into the sunset to start a new life. I have absolutely no intention of ruining mine or anybody else's family and home life, I simply want to put some of that lost fun, thrill and passion back into both our lives that you experience with a new relationship. Because of family life, meeting up on evenings and weekends will be very difficult, therefore, I am seeking someone who is able to meet up during the day. I guess I would like to take things slowly with contact initially being through messaging and email, and I guess if there appears to be a spark between us then I would like to meet up maybe a couple of times a month or more frequently depending upon both of our commitments.

I have been married and with the same person for over 20 years now, and I guess that I am looking to put some fun and sparkle back into my life. When I first meet someone new I can come across as quite shy and introverted, but once I feel comfortable in your company then my sense of humour ( sometimes verging on sarcastic) comes to light. I do like to please people, so I would quite like to meet someone who is willing to please me as much as I am willing to please them. I am a very tactile person and so would prefer someone similar.


3 words to describe me would be sincere, laid back and friendly. I guess the best way to describe my build would be curvy, I have quite an active job, and find that this tends to keep me reasonably fit without the need for an expensive gym membership, to be honest I did used frequent the gym when I was younger but just don't have the energy, time or inclination these days. I like being outdoors, and in my spare time enjoy cycling, kayaking and walking, but I'm also quite happy in front of the TV with a large glass of red wine and a good TV box set. I am not really into the clubbing scene ( never have been), and would much prefer a good pub meal as opposed to a fancy expensive restaurant ( I'm by no means tight, but I do like to get value for money).

If we were to meet this is what you'll see:- 5'10, blue eyes, short light brown hair, normal, casual.

Ideal Partner:

I guess my ideal partner in crime would be someone who initially comes across as quite sweet and innocent, but has a more hidden naughty side to them. I would consider myself to be fairly broad minded, I am not easily shocked, and will try most things at least once.

My ideal partner would be someone who is laid back, long haired, flirty, fun loving, honest, imaginative, broad minded, sexy and sincere. A bit of a tall order I know, but hopefully someone out there will tick some of my wish list.

Other Interests:

Gardening, Music - Rock, Cycling, Sailing / Boating, Water Sports, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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