Chilledout15

About Me:

I'm funny and can be charming or challenging depending on the situation and what makes any relationship work best. Work is a much a passion as an income, in the non-government public sector my profession serves people and pays well. Music has always had a central role in my leisure time, taste ranging from good rock through 80's dance and pop to anything with quality. I cook, a lot! Growing up with parents running hotels started me well and while I shy away from overly foodie work it's well known I can create lovely meals. Cars are the other spine to my pleasures. Currently suffering a relatively modern Mercedes an older faster and sexier one is about ready to go on the road. I can fix anything that doesn't involve electronics or software. Recently I began writing, about my rather varied and apparently interesting life. Friends and colleagues have encouraged me but frankly I doubt it's well written or even that worth reading, it is fun to do. At times the sex is dominating the cliched 'sex, drugs and rock n Roll' however. I stopped smoking cigarettes switching to vaping a week ago, it's gone really well.
My 21 year marriage has been friendly but without attraction to each other for around 5 years despite both being pretty good looking. We live together, with our 20 year old son. We don't sleep together. That's not an issue for us, each having options that have been taken, in my case very rarely because of not wanting to bring things into our home. We have no plans to separate and my wife is cool with me trying to widen my world and see people.
I like women's company, and if I'm honest particularly the attractive ones. Friends and colleagues say women like me and respond well to my personality. A relationship could be short or longer, which ever is fun for both. I'd see meeting for a drink and meal being an introduction which allowed some sense of each other. The idea of more direct hook ups for sex would be great if not burdened with fear on your part. I'm have a slim frame, 6'1", strong legs and OK upper body. My hair is mid blonde and fine, if there's grey no one has seen it beyond the odd strand from my parting. It is long, slightly beyond my shoulders and I don't style it. When washed it's still got life and flows but mostly it's in a pony tail. I was Peter Pan until a few years ago sadly things now need more attention. I'd say I was in a general group of reasonably good looking through life and now for my age probably better than a lot. I don't do 'fitness' having always been quite active it wasn't necessary, maybe now I should think about it! Thankfully a bit of care with food and drink is getting rid of a stomach that appeared a couple of years ago.
Apparently I 'scrub up well' in good suits and shoes people say things hang well on me. I'm pretty scruffy if not out or working. Jeans, T-shirts, jumpers are staples. Conservative I'm not, both smart and casual have to be edgy.

Ideal Partner:

A person has to be fun and interesting because regardless of their looks I'd not find it easy to spend time them otherwise. I'm probably also fussy about how good looking they are. My relationships have always been with very attractive women and I doubt I'd change now. I like slim but not skinny women, pretty faces and good legs. Nice hair especially long hair really holds my attention. Hippy chicks and glamorous girls both appeal, over effort or enhancement annoys me. High heals and sexy clothes never hurt. Religion worries me so strong beliefs would probably not work. Honesty but not necessarily to the point of self detriment is a quality I like, people can be who they want as long as it's not hurting anyone.
The truth is I'm going online to meet new good looking women who want sex and maybe more but that's not important, there's plenty of ok ones available and around me already. I've said mid 20's to mid 30's women because that's most likely who'll attract me, other ages are not off the cards but I guess when it comes to looks I'm shallow! Younger in the age range women may need to be thought about if it was more than sex, why would you want to spend time with me?

Other Interests:

Nature, Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Alternative, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Rock, Politics, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Cooking, Food and Wine

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