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Questions that make them go 🙄

I have been on this website for a few months with not much success. I get that ladies are approached a lot. What questions should I not ask to make it look like I am just another guy in the queue?

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Doubleohseven - 18 May, 2025 - 05:52PM

OP - Question not to ask: "What questions should I ask?"


DramaFree&Easy - 18 May, 2025 - 01:54PM

@The Lush

It’s quite amusing to think that one could really annoy another with a mindless question like that.

The problem is, so few women respond and the competition is quite fierce..given the higher than usual membership fee, I can see why guys are inclined to spam pointless questions like that without realising the damage it does to their chances.


The Lush - 17 May, 2025 - 04:59PM

"What are you looking for?" is the question that drives me nuts...

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Paula99 - 16 May, 2025 - 01:47PM

I think it would be easier to say …I have just got back from the sex shop …what would you like 👍


Paula99 - 16 May, 2025 - 01:02PM

I think the less said about Golf ..the better 😬

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Man_Alive_2025 - 16 May, 2025 - 11:53AM

Delicious Chaos - 30 Apr, 2025 - 12:15PM

This is the best piece of advice, especially if you have things in common on both your profiles; in which case mention it!

Make it personal rather than copy paste message by saying ‘I messaged you because…’

Also align yourself with their ideal partner description, so if they want someone who enjoys golf (shudder), say something like ‘Hi, just got back from the golf course and saw your profile…


Black Gent - 16 May, 2025 - 10:58AM

Take a look at your profile. I do not know about male profiles but I assure you that most women seen to post generic profiles that do not give much insight into personality but give more along class/social aspirations.

Make your profile interesting!


ExoticOrchid - 30 Apr, 2025 - 05:03PM

Enigma - 08:17AM

Are you saying I cannot expect ANY of those you listed ... absolutely speechless as well as gutted ... shocked and stunned I tell you ... 😲

(tongue planted firmly in my cheek too 😉🤣)


Delicious Chaos - 30 Apr, 2025 - 12:15PM

My number 1 piece of advice, ask them a question about their profile, that will show you’ve actually read it properly

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EmnEm123 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 11:26AM

FFS! Something that myself and Enigma agree on !

Who woulda thunk it? 🤔😁

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