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boav91 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 07:58AM

So when you first meet someone it is probably unwise to share everything. You do need to give away some honest details if you are not a player as let’s be fair, if you say you are a fit 30 year old and turn out to be 60 with a beer belly it is not going to help the sustainability of the relationship.

As the relationship with you grows, then trust will grow too. I think there are broadly two groups of relationships on here, those that last a short time and are not more than filling a sexual need and once done people move on , the second type is where a second relationship develops. In the latter you develop feelings and trust and there it will not be real if you keep things hidden. In the former type you don’t really need to say too much as that is not what you are there for. In those have a nice meet, have sex and move on.

I had the former type once and it was fun, but I now have the second and it is amazing, there is total trust and disclosure and that makes it special.

Clickable Connection - 23 Apr, 2025 - 09:04AM

As purple dreamer said I think this is between two people and the amount of trust between them - also depends what sort of relationship it is.

For me , I generally try not to give too much away that can personally identify me. It's not about power but being cautious, as you never know how a relationship is going to go and how they may react.

Also I think to begin with it's ok for both parties to withhold stuff , create aliases etc - I value discretion above all.

Infact id go as far as saying it's a red flag if a woman disclosed too much info about herself & perhaps indicating she might not be as discreet as I'd like

Horses for courses I guess

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Purple dreamer - 20 Apr, 2025 - 08:42AM

Think its a question between the two people and if you plan on it being a long term thing

Delicious Chaos - 20 Apr, 2025 - 08:12AM

I love the way most men have had a stalker! Tbh I think a lot of men just don’t want to give anything away, as a power thing and pull the stalker card!

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Enigma.. - 20 Apr, 2025 - 07:01AM

@Naughty in NW

Basically a fanny north of the border is an Idiot with little or no common sense etc…
So he likes fanny people 🤔🤷🏼‍♀️ 🤣
Kind of says it all really 🙄🤣.
Just another eejit…
No further comment 😉😏.

Funguy77 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 09:12PM

P99

I’m sure I don’t know what you mean lol

Naughty in NW - 19 Apr, 2025 - 09:06PM

Srargeek.......your profile states you like 'fanny people'.

It's helpful that you clarify what gender (if we are still allowed to identify as one of two genders these days) you are looking for. But just for the hell of it you could make it even clearer and use the term 'woman' or 'female' although I grant you that we do indeed have fannies! Sorry, I couldn't resist.

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Paula99 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 08:22PM

Funguy ….

Your use of words and phrases is interesting’ let’s say ..
😬

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Funguy77 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 07:51PM

My sarcasm level is peeking 🤦

Whoever writes this crap needs to get help or just stop 😂😂

Funguy77 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 07:46PM

Meeting someone new’s grand—like pulling on a night out and realising they’ve got all their own teeth. But most of us are sneakin’ about like sexed-up raccoons, hoping nobody clocks us.

I don’t give out my full name unless I’ve seen how they shag and how they argue—'cause both tell you everything. Work? Only if it won’t end up with them stalking me on LinkedIn with one hand down their pants.

And too much? That’s when someone tells you about their arsehole bleaching before dessert. Christ, keep a bit of mystery! Let’s swap filthy grins, not family trauma.

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