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How do you keep your meets fun?

Where has you IE suggested for your meets? What is normal .. a hotel room..
air bnb... a hidden corner of a wood or the back of a car..? What do you
think is acceptable and what would you avoid? My normal is a nice dayuse
hotel for a day/afternoon locked away for some hidden fun, but recently was
taken on an amazing voyage, so to speak. How do you and your IE keep your
meetings fun and exciting?

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Mr Bright side 73 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 12:16PM

I prefer to book a room at a country hotel for a day/night of naughty fun. I think it’s a little bit more special than just one of the run of the Mill chain hotels IMHO. Plus normally each room at the same hotel has a different layout, I feel like this makes it a little more exciting, when thinking of which positions and furniture to bend her over.

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Beckysharp - 26 Sep, 2023 - 12:04PM


I never book the room… I’ll pass on the advice though!

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Petruchio911 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 11:58AM


always ask for a room at the farthest end of the corridor away from reception and make sure hes bound and gagged before you whip him....that should keep the noise down a bit.

P911 flagilation

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OneLifeDontWasteIt - 24 Sep, 2023 - 07:13PM

Be yourself. No point trying to be anyone else. Eventually someone will like you for it.

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Beckysharp - 24 Sep, 2023 - 12:50PM

They all know what we’re doing. I’m sure they have a good laugh at all the horny middle aged afternoon shaggers 😂

Tbf I feel way more sorry for the cleaners than the receptionists!! They always seem to be cleaning the room right next door 🙈

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Paula99 - 24 Sep, 2023 - 12:29PM


Of course the receptionist knows what you are doing …but you are not the only one …plus it’s easy money for the hotel ….go enjoy shag each others brains out 😉

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Craig7423 - 24 Sep, 2023 - 09:53AM

This is a big part of the discretionary side of an affair for me, I would prefer a hotel but booking in could be tricky and I get embarrassed easily thinking that the receptionist knows what you are doing.

Petruchio911 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 10:58AM



is that your perfume i can smell darling or is it the aroma of kerosene?

P911 boilerjuice (beetlejuice)

Alan74 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 05:58AM


Your description of outdoor fun on the beaches of Cornwall doesn’t have quite the same attraction here in Essex

“I say darling, would you mind doggy so I can look at the Coryton refinery too”?

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Petruchio911 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 12:14AM


My mistake....it was a blue catsuit and silver boots......i must have got confused betweeN Agnetha and ELTON JOHN.

P911 rocketman

Petruchio911 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 12:04AM


AH YES, a white silky cat suit, blue platform boots (that will make you 7ft tall ).and a red tea cosy on yr head ...that will come in particularly handy for keeping the pot warm..

I think I should bring a wooden box to stand on in case there is a chance of a snog at the end of the evening.

P911 little dennis waterman

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Naughty in NW - 20 Sep, 2023 - 08:55PM


Christ, you have really got my interest now with your choice of outfit and said accessory. Massive turn on. I need to lie down in a dark room to recover.

Sadly I don't have a blue crimplene dress. Very remiss of me. I do however have an exact replica of the outfit that Agneta (the blonde one) from ABBA wore in 1974 when they won Eurovision. It's in pristine condition! Will that do?

I'll be carrying some Swedish meatballs on one of those classy disposable serving trays for you to munch on. No chance of mistaken identity.

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Runner6969 - 20 Sep, 2023 - 12:31PM

Normally meet for a coffee/drink. Assuming things progress, it would be a hotel day room for me - assuming we're both already partnered (and not to each other). Lovely surroundings, discreet and safe. If she's single, or ENM/hotwife/stag & vixen relationship, then happy to go back to her place.

Petruchio911 - 20 Sep, 2023 - 10:19AM

I should of course said dessert mot desert....doh

P911 beau geste

Petruchio911 - 20 Sep, 2023 - 12:05AM


How will we recognise each other?
Tell you what...i shall wear my hair slicked back with Brylcreme...a neatly trimmed moutache and a blue smoking jacket and yellow trousers ( think the keyboard player in the 70s band Sparks).....i shall also be carrying a pineapple.......just in case you fancy desert after the chips cheese and gravy.

Do you have a blue crimplene dress...if not we may be able to pick one up at Age Concern whilst we are out.

P911 Ron Mael

Petruchio911 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 11:33PM


bye eck lass its a bloody shame that Wigan Casino has been bulldozed as we could have had an all nighter.

In the absence of NORI bricks i find that a stale pork pie serves as an effective weapon.

Back in 1984 during the miners strike we used to throw them at the police as a substitute for petrol bombs

P911 steak bake

Naughty in NW - 19 Sep, 2023 - 11:21PM


Oh wow. Yes pleeeaase. Never had such a tantalising offer before. I will take this opportunity to donate my aunty Vera's tap dancing shoes and uncle Melvin's Cuban heels. He was a short arse sadly but remained optimistic until he met Gladys on a blind date and she unfortunately knocked him out with her handbag as she didn't see him. He never regained consciousness. In her defence it was standard procedure to carry three bricks in your handbag on a night out in Wigan in those days. Survival of the fittest and all that.

Could we please also pop into a charity shop to donate my neighbour's commode. She would hate for it to be wasted.

Then, share a portion of chips and gravy and a lukewarm shandy?

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Petruchio911 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 10:39PM

Enigma et al

The problem with these sites is that they are London centric and the north starts at tottenham court road

Maybe we should declare UDI and organise a northern drinks do.


Petruchio911 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 10:32PM


Mwah mwah

If you are free i could meet you near the shoe recycling bins at Asda Colne on Fiday evening

P911 sole mate

Naughty in NW - 19 Sep, 2023 - 09:37PM


You are incorrigible.......but please don't change! 😋

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Falmouth - 19 Sep, 2023 - 09:35PM

Cornwall outdoor fun works...secluded beaches.

Iamnotkevin - 19 Sep, 2023 - 12:13PM

During summer any secluded spot outdoors always adds excitement if your partner is on board with the idea.

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Enigma.. - 19 Sep, 2023 - 11:47AM

Actually meeting someone on this site would be a bloomin miracle.
London boom town.
Good luck ☹️

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Petruchio911 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 10:36PM


Well if it was the 1970s and on the Coop car park on Rochdale its got to be worth a couple of pages of blue stamps.

I dont lnow what is worst though the taste of fish or the taste of the glue on the stamps.

P911 mackeral

Petruchio911 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 10:31PM


Muffin? .....then nip in for a pint of milk for a cuppa when you got home.

P911 creampie

Naughty in NW - 18 Sep, 2023 - 07:45PM


I can only guess where you (or your date) swiped your store loyalty card, as it clearly wasn't a contactless transaction.....😁

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Paula99 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 06:21PM

I have done it with my regular IE in Morrisons car park before they installed the cameras…but it was in the winter months…the car park was relatively empty and I was working nights….😉
Not sure I would be doing much in the daylight hours and most car parks are monitored now 😂

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Petruchio911 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 05:42PM


Was there a buy one get one free offer on that week. Every little helps!

Such a classy meeting...you are a superstore.....sorry superstar

P911 loyalty scheme

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Anton555 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 04:59PM

You have to do your homework, read and ask where he or she would accept their meets but the first meet is going to be the one to get right. I have meet with a lady and she was quite open to have oral and more in the back of my car in a supermarket car park but is not every ones choice but it has that added excitement to it not to be caught and at my age its great to feel 18 again

JayneJones - 18 Sep, 2023 - 02:42PM

Db360k I think that would be a really popular idea with regular couples and IE ones alike. This could be a great business model x

andyluvslegs - 18 Sep, 2023 - 01:51PM

dayuse is the very best ! But I do have to acknowledge a certain guilty pleasure found in the back of a car!

Beckysharp - 18 Sep, 2023 - 01:09PM

I was sat in outdoors jacuzzi today at spa thinking how amazing it would be if my IE could join me… 😇

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Alan74 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 12:41PM

I like to alternate between doing something and a hotel room for the obvious.

My best first date was to Tate modern, walk round the gallery, lots of laughs. Walked her back to the car and was rewarded with a lovely kiss. 2nd date happened soon after.

Meets where you do something are the best for building the relationship which is more important than sex all the time.

But what do I know, my last IE only lasted 7 years!

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Hedone - 14 Sep, 2023 - 08:16PM


Choose a hotel slightly out of area then if you are really that worried. Plenty of people use hotels for legitimate purposes I.e not just using a bedroom

Re Airbnb - Google is your friend !
Everything is out there if you know where to look

Dotty Green - 14 Sep, 2023 - 08:07PM

Db360k - 14 Sep, 2023 - 03:15PM

We’ve been looking at a dungeon day 😈😈

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Db360k - 14 Sep, 2023 - 03:15PM

Has anyone seen a day use air B and B ? Like a room of requirement that has a discrete entrance? I’m never keen on hotels as this would really take some explaining should someone recognise me or her ..
i was thinking of making one of mine into something like this so day use air B and B / dungeon .. but that’s another story …

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Shoutout - 14 Sep, 2023 - 10:58AM

Becky, I have to say it was a delicious curry twinned with an exquisite pint of Abbot Ale, £1.35 a pop. Of such things are sweet memories made.Alas my paramour Ion that occasion had to leave immediate after dispensing oral relief to get the number 6 bus home before the children return to the marital abode. Dear readerI never saw her again...

Beckysharp - 14 Sep, 2023 - 10:44AM

Post curry bJ…. It gets worse shoutout 😂

Shoutout - 14 Sep, 2023 - 10:40AM

ClassyLady77, I have the vaguest feeling that a skip behind Wetherspoons would not be your first choice for an amorous assignation. In my defence I had only popped to take advantage of their fine Curry Thursdays promotion.

The rest as they, is history, or in my case, biology...

Al77777777 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 12:12PM

A nice hotel with a large double bed lol

ClassyLady77 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 11:27AM

Princess0121. ~ NEVER have hotels first meet you’re wasting your money and men are rarely as good in person as online. I’ve split the bill once never again it made me feel cheap/easy.. I spend the money on lingerie as never see me in same set twice 😉

Shoutout.. lol Pure class

Andy118959.. IF the boats a rocking dont come knocking… 😜

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Shoutout - 13 Sep, 2023 - 10:25AM

Usually a social meet first, then a hotel room, then wherever takes the mutual fancy.

Although one of my most exciting and unexpected encounters happened 33 mins after starting an intended first social meeting , getting a splendid BJ behind a skip next to a Wetherspoons...

Maxix2021 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 10:01AM

For my previous APs its been AirBnb, DayUse, but we've not been against cars, or out in the wild :P

1595187 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 09:29AM

my sailing yacht in portsmouth 6 bunks, 2 double beds, warm and cosy.

Donsman7 - 11 Sep, 2023 - 11:12PM

First time has got to be "regular" but after that, whatever goes :-)
If the chat and flirting has been good, the arousal should be automatic, both sides !!!

Princess0121 - 10 Sep, 2023 - 11:44AM

Talking about meets, it all depends on the interactions that have preceded the meets. During lockdown hotels were still open for business. I had my first meet there and we were both ready for the next stage. It was great.

However, since everything is back to normal, I made the mistake of meeting someone in one of them day rooms. He was nothing like the photos he had posted of himself severely obese and the champagne he boasted of bringing to the date was nothing but a cheap bottle of Prosecco. I don’t have issues with splitting the bill, but I not tolerate fake pictures and lies. So unless you have met for a coffee or lunch/dinner pls don’t book a hotel room. Also face time is great. We only ever spoke on the phone.

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Petruchio911 - 09 Sep, 2023 - 11:14PM

And i had you down as a Pimms or Bellini girl.

Whats your stance on chips cheese and gravy apparently its the national dish in Canada.... and Cumbria.


Naughty in NW - 09 Sep, 2023 - 08:05PM


Very generous of you! 😁

I would feel slightly uncomfortable If you stretched that far TBH.

Supermarket value diet lemonade ticks all my boxes. If I'm feeling greedy I might just request an own brand packet of crisps. Very daring and could be a deal breaker, I know!

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Petruchio911 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 12:48AM

Ive run out of Krug but I may throw in a bottle of Tizer or Irn Bru.


Petruchio911 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 12:22AM

Well a barm cake without fillimg would be pointless......unless you want to use it as a frisby....

Bacon and egg or sausage and egg or maybe tuna nicoise perhaps?

Fancy a picnic on the canal towpath after vigourous waving has subsided?


Naughty in NW - 07 Sep, 2023 - 10:29PM


Is a filling allowed in the barm cake or would that just compromise everyone's integrity, expectations and generally cause upheaval and a shocked response?

Being a Northern Lass (although not actually a British National), a barm cake without crispy bacon and HP sauce is as pointless as a sex toy in a nunnery.

Just thinking .....I might have massively contradicted myself there...... Hmmmm.

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boav91 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 11:33AM

I cant say I have done this much, but mixing it up. Even if you have been together for a while not making it all just about the sex is always fun. Keeping the anticipation and the desire, looking forward to the meets all just add to the fun of it.

Get the mind excited and the rest will follow IMO

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ClassyLady77 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 11:09AM

Definitely coffee or drinks first meet.

Chris6069uk iF chemistry is there first date then it’ll make the Second date even more exciting.. Unless your a one date wonder.. 🤔

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Petruchio911 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 12:35AM

First meet strictly tea and a barm cake...anything else would be very presumptious

P911 Barmy

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Paula99 - 06 Sep, 2023 - 10:10PM


Coffee meet is all I am prepared to do but not at a hotel ….for me those kinds of expectations would definitely raise red flags 🚩..

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Naughty in NW - 06 Sep, 2023 - 08:12PM

Dotty Green

Absolutely. This message trail is kinda banter based.......tongue firmly in cheek and suggestions mainly based on already established connections on here.


Each to their own of course. From a female perspective, I'd be very cautious about a hotel room on the first meet. As I said, not for me. Perhaps bear in mind the potential vulnerability experienced by your date.

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Chris6069uk - 06 Sep, 2023 - 12:50PM

I like to have a hotel booked, even though we may just be meeting for a drink or coffee. Often the electricity is there and we need to move quickly!

Dotty Green - 06 Sep, 2023 - 11:51AM

Becool - 05 Sep, 2023 - 09:50PM

I think the OP is talking about the regular meets once you are an established affair.

I am with you tho, my first few meets are always very public, coffee, drink lunch before I even think of booking a hotel meet.

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1616715 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 09:50PM

How about a cafe or a bar? Let's face it you may not like each other.
Surely the hotel stage comes after an initial meet to check each other out?
I'd never book a hotel unless I'd met her at least once for a social.

Petruchio911 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 12:08PM

Perilous situations are my forte especially undercover. Dark deeds in dark places.

Dont wave you knickers too vigourously or people will think you are sinking or trying to surrender.


Naughty in NW - 04 Sep, 2023 - 11:04PM


Very grateful for the offer of your dodgy dingy. Although times are hard, I believe I have an offer from my friend that will just pip yours to the post. She has an old canoe which she claims is perfect for some canoodles. An offer too good to refuse. I might bump into you on your dingy on the Leeds to Liverpool Canal? Make yourself known and I will wave my knickers in the air to salute you. Might even pick you up if you seem to be in a perilous situation.

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Petruchio911 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 10:40PM

Naughty in NW

I feel your pain......distinct lack of helipads in Burnley...althoigh i believe The guy from Bank of Dave may have one you could use?

As for boats i could lend you my inflatable dingy but the valve is a bit leaky so to stop it going down on you ..........you may have to pump it regularly...........

Alternatively as a fully paid up member of the RLNI you could come out with me......i have extensive experience in finding the little man in the boat.


Petruchio911 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 10:30PM


Was this on the boating lake in regents park


Naughty in NW - 04 Sep, 2023 - 09:44PM


Indeed. Obviously I usually sip Krug 1928 Champagne. Cost of living crisis and all that.......Blue Nun it is. Again, very much outside the box. 😅

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laugar164 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 08:47PM

Omg blue nun not heard of that for years

Naughty in NW - 04 Sep, 2023 - 08:06PM


You are very lucky to have a fully functional boat at the moment. I'd give anything for that.

My yacht is currently on lease to the Sultan of Dubai. It's more luxurious than his apparently. So that's out of action for a few months. My helicopter is ok, but there are not enough helipads to land in secluded areas. Such a bummer.

Now then. I know what you're thinking......what about the Ferrari in Fiery Red? Well......the suspension is apparently a bit compromised as I got a tad carried away with the gearstick. It's in the garage. Say no more.

As for islands.......not many of those in my neck of the woods. Mostly parks littered with dog shite.

A sweaty cheese sandwich, a bottle of Blue Nun and some outrageous petting on the train to Skegness (under a modest blanket of course) for a thrilling day trip filled with drink and debauchery anyone?

Now that is thinking out of the box! 😁

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Alleyone - 04 Sep, 2023 - 06:38AM

Think outside the box… my last meet I collected her in my boat, we went to an island and….let’s just say, both naked on a blanket…saying no more…)

Petruchio911 - 02 Sep, 2023 - 11:50PM

As Bette Davis opined

Fasten your safety belt its gonna be a bumpy ride.


Petruchio911 - 02 Sep, 2023 - 11:40PM

Well then its a good job i know how to Double de clutch.

Men were deceivers ever, One foot in sea, and one on shore; To one thing constant never. ”

Naughty in NW - 02 Sep, 2023 - 11:30PM


I would expect my passengers to be perfectly capable of both going down and pushing buttons without my guidance. This is how I determine who gets a ticket to ride on my coach 😁

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Petruchio911 - 02 Sep, 2023 - 10:58PM

She may be small (not) but she be fierce....

Going down?

Well who will push the buttons?

Keep both hands on the wheel at 10 to 2...

Naughty in NW - 02 Sep, 2023 - 10:34PM


Aye, if the fool could find where it lies.......

No offence 😀

Blackpool? Surely you jest Sir. Blackpool is for beginners. We are going down.......south.

Petruchio911 - 02 Sep, 2023 - 09:59PM

If she be waspish best beware her sting


Petruchio911 - 02 Sep, 2023 - 09:42PM

I hope you know the way to blackpool without a sat nav then


Naughty in NW - 02 Sep, 2023 - 08:29PM


Change of plan. I'll forfeit the drinking and take one for the team. I'm gonna drive the coach.......like a bat out of hell and straight into hedonistic pleasure.

This shrew is not for taming. 😁

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Petruchio911 - 01 Sep, 2023 - 11:25PM

Naugjty in NW

I think we can find room for you on the back seat.

JD and coke or dirty martini?


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Naughty in NW - 01 Sep, 2023 - 10:30AM

I wanna sit in the naughty corner.

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Petruchio911 - 01 Sep, 2023 - 12:05AM

Dotty Green.

Are you booking the coach for the dungeon party or is Exotic Orchid the entertainmemts officer.

I wanna sit on the back seat with BeckySharp and Paula 99

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Hedone - 31 Aug, 2023 - 05:26PM

Sandy pops

Google is your friend, there are a few dungeons in the South East. I’ve been to some, some are better than others but definitely a fun experience

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ExoticOrchid - 31 Aug, 2023 - 11:24AM

DG - 10:41AM

Hear, Hear! 👍

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Dotty Green - 31 Aug, 2023 - 10:41AM

Lots of interest in the dungeon, we are thinking of going to one - outside London tho...

I have never had a receptionist give me a knowing look when booking in to a day use, so many use them when travelling, photo shoots... not always used for seeeeeeeexxxxxy time. Or maybe that is in London in large hotels?? dunno ?

I have been lucky to have been to some gorgeous hotels (some I have paid half for some I have been treated to depends on the relationship). I have been lucky to have been taken to a very special place this time by my IE, and felt it def was a voyage of discovery....

Would I go to someone's house - nope. The only time I have been was that my first IE become single during our time together so then we did occasionally go to his place.

For me it is not so much the venue that makes the experience fun, it is what you both make it, but.... a lovely hotel, big bed, closed door, fun games, picnic wine... secret decadent afternoons. That for me is what an affair is all about.

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Indiandelight85 - 31 Aug, 2023 - 08:58AM


Where's it located please?
Asking for a friend 😁😜

Paula99 - 31 Aug, 2023 - 05:31AM


Not for me 🤢

Sandypops - 31 Aug, 2023 - 02:01AM

ClassyLady77 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 09:38PM

I need to have the details of this dungeon! For a friend, obviously 😂

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Sandypops - 31 Aug, 2023 - 01:59AM

First meets were always going to be a coffee shop during the day but reality has been ....
coffee shop, pub, sitting chatting in a car, hotel bar and 🤦🏻‍♀️

Subsequent meets have been varied
Day-use (I can't deny I love the knowing look on the receptionists face 😂)
Hill top
Back of the car
His apartment
His house

I definitely have a risqué side 😈

My issue is I'm generous by nature and would rather give than receive and I struggle with a man doing all the travelling and paying for things like a hotel. And the men I have seen won't accept anything towards the cost. I mean, we're both benefiting 😊

So for me, I'd rather keep things simple and cheap (not that I'm 'cheap' of course 🤣) I used to meet my last man for walks and I'd take treats for his dog.and drinks and snacks for us both. He did get us a hotel more than once but I struggled not contributing.

I'm definitely not used to being spoilt by any man.

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ClassyLady77 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 09:38PM

First meet always bar, restaurant or coffee shop..

Second date could be hotel, then if carries on longer dungeons are good. I know a private use one that hire by the hour..

Sex clubs can also be eye opening. I won’t go back to one unless I’m with right man. 😉

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ExoticOrchid - 30 Aug, 2023 - 09:38PM

DG - 07:29PM

Indeed!!! 😉

TheBoredHousewife - 30 Aug, 2023 - 08:33PM

I could think of a few fun and exciting places to meet, but the toilet is definitely not one of them 😎🚽🧻🚻

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Dotty Green - 30 Aug, 2023 - 08:14PM

beechmore11 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 07:55PM

The toilets !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Classy

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beechmore11 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 07:55PM

I’m on a restaurant and I find it so sexy to bring my meets in for lunch
See where it goes I have had a couple of amazing sessions in the toilets and the kitchen!!!!

Dotty Green - 30 Aug, 2023 - 07:29PM

ExoticOrchid - 30 Aug, 2023 - 06:56PM

I know what floats my boat … ⛵️⛵️⛵️⛵️ literally 😈

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Toffee.macchiato4 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 07:19PM

I have to agree with exotic child
Back of the car sounds hot, the practicality of it is so not . Awkward bumping and sweating 😅 am just too old and lack the flexibility for that.

Woods ahhh, I don’t like the idea of bugs in my hair of dirt on me so no . Am not an exhibitionist so does nothing for me at all
A hotel with a clean a comfy bed for long private sessions with no interruptions is definitely my thing. That’s my kind of excitement 😁
But definitely a case of each to their own as they say

ExoticOrchid - 30 Aug, 2023 - 06:56PM

I agree with GMJ ... if you *have* to keep it fun, then something isn't right ... it should always be fun to spend time with your IE no matter what or where.

Sure, there might be times when something special has been arranged but that's just an extra dimension to the relationship.

The thought of being seen/caught does not excite me so fields/woods/back of cars are definitely *not* on my list of fun activities.

That's just me of course ... whatever floats your boat!

somethingnew19780 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 05:07PM

Dayuse all day long.

Makes me smile, when you tell the receptionist in the hotel you have the room for day use. They know what your up to.
Only downside, I've had a cleaner walk in on us before.

Yet, not very many options where I live.

Funguy77 - 30 Aug, 2023 - 03:58PM

Yip I use Dayuse hotels. Lots of choices cheep some really nice ones in Edinburgh.

Otherwise I’m the past depends on time of year rolling around in the farmers field lol

Cavallino - 30 Aug, 2023 - 03:53PM

Love the idea of the woods. Being outdoors I think brings its own sense of fun and danger. It’s weather dependent though I suppose!

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Gentle Man Jim - 30 Aug, 2023 - 03:42PM

I’ve no idea what a day use hotel is!
In the sun and distant I have done the car seat! Those days are past!
A quiet field and a picnic rug seeems fun!
Either way comfort and privacy is important.
How to keep it fun?
If it isn’t fun naturally then I wonder if she is the right partner?
I would hate to try to keep it fun!

TheAnalogKid - 30 Aug, 2023 - 12:44PM

Well normally we would meet for dinner, or maybe take in a show or gig and then back to the hotel for a little private time

Back of a car feels a bit sleazy but I would imagine it may be the only option for some or may bring back memories of courting when they were younger

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