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It's in the kiss...

Good kissing, they say, is like drinking salted water...it makes you thirsty for more.
What is your favourite technique, to give and recieve? What makes your brain melt and forget your own address (and that you once had knees). What is your most memorable I.E kiss, and what has you running for the door?!

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Eliza Boo - 22 Sep, 2023 - 10:42PM

I've kissed someone where I loved kissing them, loved the way they kissed...but I still wouldn't have slept with them?! Anyone else? It isn't always an indicator or of what you think...

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Inneed ofloving79 - 22 Sep, 2023 - 09:19PM

Kissing is definitely an essential part of the sexual chemistry for me. It's one of the main things I miss.

JayJames70 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 09:03PM

Kissing is great and it’s nice to kiss and be kissed.
For me it’s an essential part of foreplay and then moving from mouth to mouth onto different parts of the body can be just amazing when you are hitting the right spot.

MakeMeMelt84 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 07:23PM

I love a good kissing session (although I don’t get them anymore). Especially when the chemistry is electric and somehow you just instinctively know what to do with each other.
It’s definitely on my list of must haves. X

TheBoredHousewife - 18 Sep, 2023 - 06:44PM

Superb kissing does not mean someone is/will be a matched IE partner, but one’s matched IE partner will naturally come with superb kissing 😊

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1623921 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 02:40PM

I agree that kissing is an art form and vastly underrated these days. I love nothing more than a very long kissing session. It’s so erotic and emotionally satisfying.

andyluvslegs - 18 Sep, 2023 - 01:40PM

simply the most sensual act when together, a great kiss gets my toes curling at the very least. I also think its a great reflection of your personality, what do you think?

Paula99 - 18 Sep, 2023 - 05:30AM

In your lifetime there will be one person that kisses with the confidence and edge…

You should start of with a gentle sensual nibbles then whatever he does or you do next you copy each others kissing style … ..it’s when you suck gently on the bottom lip and hold for a few seconds as you run your fingers through his hair and he caresses the back of your neck then you add pressure and the kiss becomes deeper …then as you come up for air your head spins..

Kissing is an art form ….😘

TheBoredHousewife - 17 Sep, 2023 - 10:28PM

laugar164 - 17 Sep, 2023 - 08:54PM

I think E and E have plenty of kissing experience between them to know what makes a kiss sizzling hot 😉

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laugar164 - 17 Sep, 2023 - 08:54PM

Erotic ,Enigma , TBH
No fancy words or fantasies for me just sensual kissing
But don't forget for a kiss to be 🔥🔥⚡️it takes two

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TheBoredHousewife - 17 Sep, 2023 - 03:53PM

Exotic / Enigma

Brilliant 😂😂

ExoticOrchid - 17 Sep, 2023 - 03:24PM

Enigma.. - 12:15PM

Let's just say I've never seen so many flying 🐖🐖🐖 ... 😉

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Enigma.. - 17 Sep, 2023 - 12:15PM


It just had to be written 😉💋.

But…. 🤔

Fantasy or real life?!? 🤔

Come on… I know you are all holding back 😉.

Spill 😉💋

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ExoticOrchid - 17 Sep, 2023 - 02:46AM

Enigma.. - 08:49AM

You beat me to it ... 👏

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Jay122 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 01:28PM

Have to agree, some excellent writing which really sets the mind and imagination racing. It also makes me realise how much I desire (need) a toe curling, body tingling kiss ! Mmmmmm . . .

Enigma.. - 16 Sep, 2023 - 08:49AM

Some of you are wasting your descriptive talents on here.
You should be writing for Mills & Boon 😃😉💋

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#noname - 15 Sep, 2023 - 10:29PM

Remember being a teenager and snogging for what felt like hours? You know... when you couldn't/woudn't go any further? Kissing is the best.

You connect in a whole different way through a kiss - whether it's a deep one with your tongues down each others throat, or full of gentle licks and bites - nothing beats a good ol' smooching seesion. Guaranteed to get everyone in the mood!

Only works if your kissing 'technique' and I guess your tongues are compatible... not always the way!

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Dizzybo - 15 Sep, 2023 - 02:49PM

A good kiss, is better than any drug, personally the ones that start with soft lips barely touching as you hold each other, that lead to tasting and exploring each others tongues until you’re moaning together, fully clothed or naked the effect is much the same

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Dotty Green - 14 Sep, 2023 - 08:11PM

Kissing is wonderful… deep, passionate…whilst grabbing my hair …. Light kisses … neck kisses… kissing inside of thighs…

It is definitely in the kiss … if there is no fanny flutters with that first kiss then it’s a no from me …

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Melody502 - 14 Sep, 2023 - 11:40AM

I'm happy just to kiss and forget the shag sometimes x A great kiss will probably lead the way though x

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Zach23 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 11:20PM

If it’s a good kiss, u don’t wish to leave and stop just continue for lllllooonnnggggg…

Ben98533 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 04:57PM

If it’s a great kiss it doesn’t matter what’s going on around you, you just want more and more of it .

Jay122 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 04:48PM

My word!! Sounds like a lot more than just your halo is slipping down to your ankles. Fabulous

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jj289600 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 02:29PM


You sound like my kissing match!!!

I once met an I.e. and we agreed… the first thing we do before we say a word to each other was to kiss…. Properly kiss…. Like we were already deep in a passionate affair….. she was an incredible kisser…. And the affair began……

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1595187 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 09:15AM

agreed lets do it andy x

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Sandypops - 12 Sep, 2023 - 11:35PM

Mmmmmm the kiss
The kiss is everything
For me, a mix between gently touching lips, kissing necks, earlobes, shoulders
Cupping or stroking yours or my face
Exploring with our tongues
Deep, passionate
Lip nibbling
Fingers entwined in hair
Bodies arching into each other
Hands wandering over my body, my neck, my spine

Mmmmm literally melting
Electricity surging through my body

Omg just imagining it now is 🥰
Halo slipping and falling round my ankles 😇

I need to be kissed and kissed and kissed

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Gentle Man Jim - 12 Sep, 2023 - 10:10PM

Ohhhh kissing! Sex without it just isn’t sex!
Kissing without sex is still kissing.
Speaks for itself

1622853 - 12 Sep, 2023 - 08:24PM

Kissing is an art form and much underrated! Done properly it can set the tone for the whole (no pun intended) encounter!

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TheBoredHousewife - 12 Sep, 2023 - 07:01PM

One man’s passionate kiss is another woman’s attack of the killer eel.

Two parties in sync; heaven on earth.

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Micky Buble - 12 Sep, 2023 - 03:41PM


I would have to just take the lead an join in
Wouldn’t you agree ?

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Petruchio911 - 12 Sep, 2023 - 03:06PM



blimey i thort they wud be able to go off to the vitual ladies room and swop notes.

Maybe its just as well as you would be having far too much fun without us and we would be outside holding yr coat n looking at our watch wondering where you had got to!


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JessicaRampantRabbit - 12 Sep, 2023 - 02:42PM

Dark Goddess summarises it beautifully…shame girls can’t message girls in her!

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Micky Buble - 12 Sep, 2023 - 12:13PM


Stop it !
You are getting me proper horny !
I read your profile it’s a shame I don’t have much hair ☹️
It’s a shame as I’m a great kisser 😉

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1622718 - 12 Sep, 2023 - 11:34AM

Passionate...Head holding....hair grabbing....lips touching....

A kiss needs to be in the moment...were sparks fly, tongues engage and nibbling occurs...

I like tongue sucking, rolling my tongue bar around his mouth...making him want more from me moaning in his mouth...

The right kind of kiss that makes my body want more....mmmmm.....A kiss that leaves you tasting him for hours.

I also find neck kissing very erotic...both giving and receiving... especially a whisper in the ear or a light scream knowing how good you make me feel....

Wow is it weird to be so turned on just talking about kissing? Xx

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Mister.E.Mann - 12 Sep, 2023 - 11:12AM

Reading this reprise has reminded me of how wonderful kissing can be. It's been quite a while since I kissed anyone with passion - I hope it's like riding a bike! Moreover, I will make sure that I follow the examples here as kissing without giving pleasure to the other person is like biting someone else's fingernails.

TheBoredHousewife - 12 Sep, 2023 - 06:25AM

Faith Hill is playing in the background.

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Paula99 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 02:38PM


If you read back to my earlier post in March …you will discover that your post is a variation on mine 😁

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Mellen1974 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 02:01PM

Then there are the kisses elsewhere ... the fistfull of hair grabbed and my head pulled back as your mouth travels down my neck, licking, sucking and biting, to the part where my shoulder meets my neck and teeth sink in. The feel of your breath where you've left my neck wet, then feeling it in my ear that it almost sounds like a growl as you take it between your teeth and pull your tongue giving it a lick better before taking my mouth again.

Then there are the unexpected kisses ... the sweet forehead kisses, the quick pecks of hello or goodbye, the cheek kisses of affection and comfort ... but also the being behind me kisses at the side of my neck and lips brushing me ear with words that can make me melt just whispered loud enough for me to hear even in a crowded place.

Really kissing is the best part of everything with the right lover.

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Mellen1974 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 02:00PM

Can tell so much from a kiss. The curiosity of a first kiss, finding your way just from lips. Is there chemistry there? What kind of lover are they going to be? Are they going to let you take the lead or are they going to control your mouth? Is it going to be the amazing game or give and take sharing back and forth?

It can build up and create an inferno or can calm after a wild storm. Always makes me giggle a bit that can kiss anywhere and no one says a thing but it can be one of the most erotic things to ever do.

My hand at the side of your jaw your hand tangled in my hair staring deep into each others eyes the rest of the world just fades away as our lips meet and slide against each other ... little licks and nibbles as it builds then open mouths and tongues tangling to the point of nearly taking bites out of each other.

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boav91 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 12:21PM

I love kissing. Your lips are one of the most sensual organs in the body. There is something about soft lingering passionate kissing that is magical and for me is probably some of the most arousing aspects of any liaisons

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Yespls - 08 Sep, 2023 - 01:59AM

Spontaneity! The kind of kiss that takes your breath away and gives you flutters are always spontaneous!

Kiss_Lover - 04 Jun, 2023 - 01:25PM

For me, if the kissing isn’t right, the relationship is doomed.

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The Joy of Impotence - 25 May, 2023 - 03:58PM

Tricky question...

Are we talking teeth in or out here?

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Cheesypuff - 24 Apr, 2023 - 08:43PM

TheBoredHousewife - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:56PM

Don't forget the mustard!

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TheBoredHousewife - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:56PM

Paula99 - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:25PM

Sun, sand, sea.

Sweet, succulent Crab 🦀🦀

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1554570 - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:38PM

Norwich has a lot going for it at the moment

The championship league table would disagree unfortunately 😔

Paula99 - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:25PM

Do you know what ?

Norwich has a lot going for it at the moment 👍

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Luna78 - 24 Apr, 2023 - 02:48AM

A good strong kiss is a must
Passion and confidence is key

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Tall Gentleman 54 - 20 Apr, 2023 - 04:26PM

Kiss her like it is your last kiss. Pull her mouth onto you. Take time.
A good kiss is when the bodies press together and entwine as one.

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Costa121 - 18 Apr, 2023 - 02:10PM

Definitely long soft and gentle kissing is near perfection

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Cheesypuff - 16 Apr, 2023 - 08:24PM

fabfeelingfun85 - 16 Apr, 2023 - 07:29PM

100% agree, and all the best kissers are from Norwich you know 😉

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fabfeelingfun85 - 16 Apr, 2023 - 07:29PM

A kiss for me is one of the most important things! You can tell a lot from how someone kisses. As I am yet to meet an I.E I can't comment but I hope when I do he sweeps me off my feet with that first kiss

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1590307 - 15 Apr, 2023 - 12:39PM

Passionate kiss, onto neck and ears & wondering hands 😜
Best combo

Cheesypuff - 14 Apr, 2023 - 04:02PM

Circe180 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 03:42PM

When I do I'll make sure to mention you in the foreword 😘

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1590175 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 03:42PM


You should put them all in a book!

Cheesypuff - 14 Apr, 2023 - 03:26PM

Circe180 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 02:28PM

Personal experience 🤷🏻‍♂️

Hedone - 14 Apr, 2023 - 03:03PM

Love to kiss a woman when she’s been down on my IE ☺️

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1590175 - 14 Apr, 2023 - 02:28PM


Where do you get all this stuff from?!

Cheesypuff - 14 Apr, 2023 - 12:44PM

Have you ever smelled/tasted the previous guys condom on a woman? It's quite distinctive.

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WillKr - 14 Apr, 2023 - 08:05AM

A kiss tells you a lot about a woman; such as last night she had Donner kebab and a Cherry Coke.
I like classy bytches

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Dotty Green - 14 Apr, 2023 - 07:43AM

Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 10:11PM

Sharing is caring 👍🏻

Sandypops - 14 Apr, 2023 - 02:37AM

I've pretty new and only had one ie meet and one ie kiss 😊
For me personally, it's so important to 'clic' by chatting , flirting, laughing (a lot) and then meeting if both people want to. Than hopefully both wanting that first kiss. Where you get butterflies of anticipation. 😊 a really bad kiss - I would have to walk an away. I love kissing and couldn't have any sort of relationship without it.
For me, that kiss either starts or ends the connection I'm hoping to build on.
For those wondering ... it was a good kiss 😉

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Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 10:11PM

Dotty Green - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:42PM

There's more than enough Cheesypuff for you and Paula, but you already know that Dotty G 😉

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Eliza Boo - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:51PM


Dotty Green - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:42PM

Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:27PM

So glad my zimmer frame is not an issue ….

And glad Paula is happy to share the cheesey love 👍🏻

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Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:27PM

Dotty Green - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:00PM

Sorry Dotty, I can't keep it in anymore. I just want to shout it from the rooftops, Dottys rabbit hole belongs to me now 🥳

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Dotty Green - 13 Apr, 2023 - 09:00PM

Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 08:36PM

I thought that was our secret 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Cheesypuff - 13 Apr, 2023 - 08:36PM

MrGinUk - 13 Apr, 2023 - 08:20PM

Similarly my IE tells me she can tell a lot from the way a guy tongue fucks her chocolate starfish, it was what got me a second meet with her.

MrGinUk - 13 Apr, 2023 - 08:20PM

A kiss tells you all about your partner. The way they use their lips, softness or hardness, where lol, wetness, tongues. It’s a prime passion indicator and stimulant for a good lover.

PonderingOne - 13 Apr, 2023 - 05:14PM

A kiss tells you everything you need to know about their passion, hunger and desire for you. Just choose when and where wisely and carefully since long and lingering is preferred.

Shineon21 - 13 Apr, 2023 - 03:21PM

Love a good snog I kiss for England!! Give me a go I’m sure you will enjoy 😉 😊👌🏻

#Summertimeconnection - 13 Apr, 2023 - 01:19PM

Isn’t kissing (ok decent kissing) just the most underrated pastime on earth ? 🤔. But it’s a journey of discovery in itself …. To be savoured not attacked ! 😉

RickiQ - 13 Apr, 2023 - 11:57AM

Long time have not enjoyed the moment, completely forgotten. Need more practice, looking for offers.

Smartypants65 - 13 Apr, 2023 - 10:57AM

It’s all in the kiss :)
Especially that first one

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405640 - 13 Apr, 2023 - 10:25AM

I've found kisses really do vary, nothing better than a nice soft playful kiss that soon turns into a passionate mouth foreplay.... But also nothing worse than a clumsy teeth clashing kiss...
Yes some of it is experience and technique but also some of it is just shape of mouths are not compatible.

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TheBoredHousewife - 05 Apr, 2023 - 09:13PM

Lorelai Gilmore - 01 Apr, 2023 - 11:05AM

Hope the kiss made up for the monologue!

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Springit - 05 Apr, 2023 - 07:21PM

LG 5.32pm

Just interested … what’s your worst date on IE . What was so bad about it ? I’m guessing he looked nothing like his pictures ? Acted like an idiot ?

Cheesypuff - 01 Apr, 2023 - 09:03PM

Paula99 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 08:29PM

Back to your place it is 🍆

Paula99 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 08:29PM

Senior Burger flipper. …very important job …you must tell me all about it and bore me to death ..

Corsa VXR….you can give me a lift home 😂

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Cheesypuff - 01 Apr, 2023 - 08:15PM

Paula99 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 11:46AM

Ahem, I was promoted to Senior burger flipper last week 😏
Want to come for a ride in my new Corsa VXR?

Dotty Green - 01 Apr, 2023 - 06:23PM

LG and Quixocit

To be fair I’ve not had that many or ones that were bad first meets ….

Had a couple that it was obvious that we were not attracted to each other. My current IE was my third meet this time round - third time’s the charm 😍

I was on here about 6 weeks before we came across each other … sometimes it takes longer … but you know when it’s right 👍🏻

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1588499 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 06:17PM

LG - I need to go back into the archives! I must've been lucky first time round, only had one other meet (and she was pleasant enough) before finding my dream IE. (sigh!)

Eliza Boo - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:32PM

So so many bad dates Quintox! ...my bad experiences are chronicled across the forum, and in bad flashbacks, regularly. I don't want yo put you off meeting, but brace yourself! 🤣

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1588499 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 04:53PM

LG - 11:05AM

Are you speaking from experience here because if you are... we want the details! 😉

Paula99 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 11:46AM

I think the way forward is .. let them talk about how important their professions are and how far up their own arses they seem to be .... and if there are no questions to you after all that speal …. find the nearest exit (no kss needed ) … 😂😂😂

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Eliza Boo - 01 Apr, 2023 - 11:05AM

What about if their kissing is amazing, but when they speak they are sooooooo boring, that after a 30 minute monologue about their work, their spouse, their kids...without even a question to you, you are so bored that you are actually kissing them to stop the word vomit?

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1585013 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 10:24AM

Well .. I think kissing is totally underrated ..

Especially when it’s been longed for after some time apart ..

No IE kisses , but I did used to have a FWB a long time ago that just made my head spin … amoungst other things while kissing …

I agree with some of the other comments regards keeping an exit strategy just in case .. nothing worse than an awful kiss

Eliza Boo - 01 Apr, 2023 - 10:00AM


I can relate!!! 😂😉

TheBoredHousewife - 01 Apr, 2023 - 09:00AM

Enigma.. - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:36AM

Just spit my coffee out laughing at that.

All part of the IE experience 😋😁😂😂

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Dotty Green - 01 Apr, 2023 - 06:43AM

Acpk55 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 08:17PM

I hasten to add the door was closed and locked 😂

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Enigma.. - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:36AM

Totally agree with some of the comments made on this thread.

I’ve yet to meet a man who can do oral properly.


I have actually fallen asleep whilst someone TRIED to give me oral ☺️🫤

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1588499 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 02:59AM

Raceystacey69 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:09PM

How many profile views did you get from that then, Stace? (Apart from mine.)

My former IE hated that word 😂 Gosh, I do miss her 🥺

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lovelyandattractive - 01 Apr, 2023 - 12:16AM

kissing is the elixir, should never be underrated.

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1554570 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:40PM

I have yet to find a man who can do a decent job of kissing my fanny.

Blimey 😊, if that’s not an invitation for a job interview, I’m not sure what is !

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Goliah - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:33PM

I'm a great kisser but from so many women I have kissed I can only remember 2 that were really good kissers :) all the rest not really.

Glizzle - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:31PM

Nothing beats the intimacy of a kiss xx

1590865 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:11PM

Kissing is all about creating intimacy and a connection. Make sure you're in a comfortable, private setting where you and your partner can relax and focus on each other.

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Raceystacey69 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:09PM

I have yet to find a man who can do a decent job of kissing my fanny.

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1554570 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 08:17PM


I used to travel a lot for work, I’ve never had an orgasm in a hotel door way,

which on balance is probably a good thing 🤷🏼

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1588499 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:49PM

I don't think you have to *ask* Camper. I think you *feel* everything you need to in an exchange of glances and the rest takes care of itself.

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Secretcumfun - 31 Mar, 2023 - 06:27PM

Soft lips 👄 and plenty of passion!

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Wildcamper - 31 Mar, 2023 - 05:13PM

I love sorry miss kissing what is the right approach to asking a woman for a kiss or is I would say a right good snog ? 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿💋

Paula99 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 02:11PM

Ohh my days …

I am loosing the hot women race here 😂😂😂

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idealies - 31 Mar, 2023 - 11:10AM

Love it when things are just so right and explosive and you can't wipe the smile off your face for hours.

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Beckysharp - 31 Mar, 2023 - 10:25AM

Yep Easter is a right PITA!

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Dotty Green - 31 Mar, 2023 - 09:44AM

Beckysharp - 31 Mar, 2023 - 08:23AM

Sometimes it is just seize the moment - next meet will be a while as Easter and then both have some plans ... so right at the end of April ... Arrrrrrrrrgh

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Beckysharp - 31 Mar, 2023 - 08:23AM

DG I doubt anyone thought you were in a premier inn 😉😂

Sounds like you had an amazing quickie meet, sometimes they can be explosive!! Enjoy the high today lucky lady

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Dotty Green - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:50AM

Acpk55 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 09:17PM

You’ve been going to the wrong ones - it happens in the one at Waterloo 😂

Point to add *I was not in a premier inn* nowt wrong with em I will also add 👍🏻

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1554570 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 09:17PM

Well ….. I’ve just cum being kissed and touched at the hotel door !!

Blimey, that has never happened to me at a Premier Inn 😳

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Dotty Green - 30 Mar, 2023 - 07:57PM

Lorelai Gilmore - 30 Mar, 2023 - 07:45PM

Love it 😍

Enjoy that ride !!!

I know got the next few days I’m on a high!

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Eliza Boo - 30 Mar, 2023 - 07:45PM

Dotty Green...it's that fabulous dopamine/endorphine hit of multiple orgasms!!!! I ride my train home and I feel like I'm flying a few feel above the train!!! I feel like commuters must look at my freshly-fucked face and think "well she's had herself a good time!" Poor boy...I leave him a husk! Happiness! X

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Dotty Green - 30 Mar, 2023 - 04:38PM

Lorelai Gilmore - 30 Mar, 2023 - 04:08PM

We so need a girl chat !!!! Off here !

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TheBoredHousewife - 30 Mar, 2023 - 04:19PM

Desperatetimes - 30 Mar, 2023 - 03:50PM

I sense a career change for myself 😂

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Eliza Boo - 30 Mar, 2023 - 04:08PM

Dotty! What a fantastic message! 🤗 It's so lovely to hear the thrill and passion pouring out from your words!

I was the same the week before last. I messed up my trains and a longer meet was reduced to two hours, but it was still worth every moment
A fabulous refresher and top-up. Just makes you want more though, doesn't it?!

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Desperatetimes - 30 Mar, 2023 - 03:50PM

Kissing is magnificent...it should be provided on the NHS for people who are depressed . A good kisser is a goood kisser but there are many type..some involving deep tongue action some just a touch of the lips..but good god it is all fantastic

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Dotty Green - 30 Mar, 2023 - 03:44PM

Well ….. I’ve just cum being kissed and touched at the hotel door !!

He’s not over 6ft .. he’s not got a six pack … but wowzers ……… he pushes ever single one of my buttons….

We had a quick meet today .. but we both had to see each other before Easter ! It’s all about timing.

I could’ve got peed off about the meet not being our usual long lazy meet … but what’s the point I wanted to see him and no point being humpy - LIVE FOR THE MOMENT!!

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secretdinnerdate - 30 Mar, 2023 - 02:48PM


I thought I knew about kissing .... now I'm wondering if I don't.

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FluffyClouds - 30 Mar, 2023 - 02:40PM

My very first boyfriend had been seeing an older woman for a year before me. She trained him well because he taught me a thing or two about kissing. God, I loved kissing him.

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Beckysharp - 30 Mar, 2023 - 12:58PM

Beer goggles 😂

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1554570 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 12:44PM

stop kissing drunk women!! Not cool

lol Other way around,I seem to drunk women magnet 🧲, dunno why!

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Beckysharp - 30 Mar, 2023 - 10:06AM

Acpk55 stop kissing drunk women!! Not cool

I’m not sure there is a good or bad anything. But if someone mirrors our style (through kissing, touch or sex) and the pheromones kick in… we’ll obviously think they’re amazing

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1554570 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 08:49AM


Yeah, I don’t get why women automatically think that they are going to great kissers or fantastic in the sack , just because they are female, 🤷🏼.

Drunk women are terrible kissers…

1554570 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 08:43AM


Sorry, that’s just not true, age has nothing to do with it, I think it’s a confidence thing, age is irrelevant really

1588499 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 08:28AM

IYM - yeah, I always had the impression that women knew what they were doing, until recently 🥴

It's not that people necessarily have to be classed as good or bad though. There is meh. The kiss should be the fire that lights everything. I've said it before, I think it's more intimate than sex in some ways.

Being that close to someone. You can smell them. Hear their breathing. Luuurvely!

Hedone - 30 Mar, 2023 - 06:29AM

You would think women know how to kiss, lord I’ve had some bad woman kissers in my time

Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 05:29AM

A55 ..

That applies you younger women in general ..because they are body conscious it’s a learning process for women ..but yes women do lie there and think of England … but I don’t think guys(younger) have the patience because they are a bit selfish and they only think about their part ..

Both are guilty parties …😕

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1554570 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 11:59PM


Yeah, but it’s like being with a manakin , you keep having to move their hand’s about 😂

Probably the same kind of women who lay still like a sack of spuds in bed

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TheBoredHousewife - 29 Mar, 2023 - 11:12PM

Acpk55 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:44PM

Ok well I have never kissed a woman, and my hands definitely do wander. Likewise, if a man doesn’t move his hands and explore, I start thinking maybe he doesn’t like me! 😂

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Paula99 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 11:03PM


Do you guide their hands to where you want them to touch ..it’s about communication?

I always the first to put a hand up his shirt or through his hair …😈😈😈

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1554570 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:44PM


Yep, some women are hopeless , they put one hand on your arm and never move it.

Touch is so important, waist, hip, chest, everywhere please!

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TheBoredHousewife - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:37PM

Acpk55 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:16PM

Hmm? You mean women don’t use hands? Do they just stand there, mouths opening and closing like goldfish when they kiss? 🤔

1554570 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:16PM

A good kisser is important, slow and lingering, not pecking like a bird!., some women do this !

Slide One hand on her bum while you move in for the 1st kiss, use the other to brush the hair back., then slide the hand round and gently cup a breast, mmm 😋 lovely.

Women need to use their hands more, love a woman grabbing my bum …

Eliza Boo - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:13PM

The worst is when you crash teeth 🙈 only happens when you're both a bit nervous and both go for it 🙈

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TheBoredHousewife - 29 Mar, 2023 - 02:46PM

No one trick ponies!!

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Beckysharp - 29 Mar, 2023 - 12:57PM

I think that might be a very young man thing margothrobbie?

I can’t imagine settling for only good at either snogging or shagging. You need someone good at both!!

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margothrobbie - 29 Mar, 2023 - 10:25AM

I say bullcrap to that. In my younger days I had guys who were great at kissing and foreplay and then it was 2 pumps and a squirt when you got down and dirty. Conversely, I had awkward guys who fumbled everything but could really shag. You can't be good at everything.

Hedone - 29 Mar, 2023 - 06:39AM

Hottie Spicy
Not all do!
Spoken from experience I take it? Desperate times and all that

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Petruchio911 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 12:55AM

I thort salt water made you puke

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1457532 - 29 Mar, 2023 - 12:09AM

A good kiss can make a date, a bad one break it. But if you are willing to try and learn to get better, practice is fun

FluffyClouds - 28 Mar, 2023 - 09:54PM

Hottie & P99 -

Doesn't really work out when the person you are kissing just jabs away with their tongue in their search for your last meal. I'm not mirroring someone who doesn't know the basic fundamentals of a great kiss.

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Redfirefox - 28 Mar, 2023 - 09:45PM

@ Kingsman
Indeed. So you agree… slow and sensual? 😉
It’s definitely the ideal learning process. Like I said the tongue action comes into play further down the line 😛😘

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FluffyClouds - 28 Mar, 2023 - 09:34PM

A poor kissing technique and everything that came before crumbles to dust.

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1588499 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:55PM

Lorelai Gilmore - 08:26PM

Gfsrumkfsxbmydszcdsmmmmmm... 🥵

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Hottie Spicy - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:43PM

Sex workers most definitely do kiss BTW 🤣🤣🤣

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1460472 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:41PM

RFF I'm with you there I think a slow sensual kiss let's you learn about somebody but there is always 'a' time for a bit of tongue action 😉

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Beckysharp - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:32PM

😂😂😂 TBH

And I am swooning at your description LG

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Eliza Boo - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:26PM

For me its not just about the mouth (although it must be stated i am a great fan of a gentle pulling of the lips, and not a great fan of the tongue). But there is much to be said for what should be happening while the kissing is taking place...

It starts with his tucking my hair behind my ear, then either holding my chin or with one hand holding the side of my face, and eye contact, whereby we both acknowledge it's going to happen - possibly the most delicious moment.

The intent should be like waves moving intermittently between passion with intent, and playful teasing! I like when he has his fingers in my hair, maybe the fingers of one hand moving my head as he enjoys my mouth, while the fingers of the other hand touches my neck or decoupage. This technique renders me pretty much helpless!

But sometimes, often, I like to be the one that presses him to the wall, and cups his chin in my hand - and that is equally wonderful in a different way...


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TheBoredHousewife - 28 Mar, 2023 - 08:21PM

We can all tell if the last time they kissed was when Tubthumping played ad nauseum on the dance floor. Fast, furious, angry eel attacking the entire oral cavity with gusto 😁

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Hedone - 28 Mar, 2023 - 07:47PM

It all starts with a kiss, if you can’t kiss properly you’re dumped.

It does make me laugh about sex workers or those who don’t kiss. Happy to kiss parts of anatomy and other lips, but not the ones on your face 🤔

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Hottie Spicy - 28 Mar, 2023 - 07:38PM

Paula.. EXACTLY.

A good kisser assesses the situation. A good kissee mirrors the kisser.

Paula99 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 06:57PM

Not met many guys in my lifetime that know how to kiss properly .. the best kissers are the ones with chunkier lips ..when you kiss ..you copy each other ..change the kiss style …adapt ….there is a kiss for every part of your intimacy ..whether it’s tiny nibbles .. short sharp pecks..to soft lingering kisses then full on hot kisses with lip chewing and sucking to tongues entwined .
There are kisses are leave you hot underneath the collar when you meet …and there are the ones where you say until the next time.. a kiss should take your breath away ..

Kissing is an art form and if you like your IE then it can be a ‘deal breaker’ ..i

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1588499 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 05:53PM

Zyphod - 05:43PM

Is that not the rule of 'sex workers'? Makes sense to me on some level. I can see how a f*** can be just that. A kiss can carry far more intimacy.

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ExoticOrchid - 28 Mar, 2023 - 05:52PM

Zyphod - 05-43PM

Apparently sex workers do not kiss because it is "too intimate" and implies personal connection ... according to tge characters in the movie Pretty Woman ... perhaps your lady felt the same.

It's amazing how people justify things to themselves. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Redfirefox - 28 Mar, 2023 - 05:45PM

I prefer slow sensual kissing. Not rushed sloppy tongues flicking about everywhere like a dog lapping up water. Ugh
And if they’re a new fella then no don’t stick your tongue down my throat. That shit should be saved for when I’m
more comfortable with them, I’m happy with their hygiene and during a mid passionate sex session. Then tongue away.

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1100888 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 05:43PM

I did meet someone years ago who did not kiss. Why?
Kissing was considered cheating, where as Sex without kissing was more like
alloborate masturbation, hence not cheating?????

Hottie Spicy - 28 Mar, 2023 - 05:30PM

Very few women do it right.

FluffyClouds - 28 Mar, 2023 - 01:50PM

P99 -

If the eyes desire, the mind is engaged and the kiss is hot then yep it fireworks time

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Paula99 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 01:38PM

The kiss is most ‘powerful ‘ part of sex..if the kiss is hot then the sex will be amazing 🥰

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Englefield M - 28 Mar, 2023 - 11:48AM

Take your time at first wait for the passion to simer then slowly and gently more passion until you both collapse and carry on downwards

Dotty Green - 28 Mar, 2023 - 11:45AM

Beckysharp - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:53AM

Can't wait.

Exactly if you can't turn me on then why talk about what I like in bed...

Again goes with me banging on again about having that first meet, no amount of messaging or calls etc will replace the real life chemistry or not....

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laugar164 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:58AM

God I love kissing it can be so erotic and such a turn on
From little pecks to to gliding over the other person lips is sooo hot and then moving on to the body yup you got me there

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Beckysharp - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:53AM

Oooh Thursday. Not long lucky lady!!

That’s why I don’t get why some men want to rush ahead asking about ‘what kind of sex do you do’ 😂

If there’s no fanny flutters it definitely won’t be going that far!!

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Dotty Green - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:50AM

It is, if you are not aroused after the first kiss......... then it will be a no.

On my first meeting with my IE (I was sober as driving) he leaned over for that first kiss (we were tucked away in a quiet corner) and it was booooooooooom.

Now I love when we are in the lift on the way to the room.......... lots of kissing........

Sigh ..... roll on Thursday !

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1588779 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:49AM

Totally agree with these comments so far. You can tell so much from a kiss.

I absolutely love slow sensual kissing and, like Dotty, if that doesn't get me going, then it's a No from me.

Fabulous kissing usually always leads to great sex (from me anyway)

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1588499 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:41AM

DH - fanny flutters 😂 It really is as simple as that though isn't it 🤷🏻‍♂️ You either flutter or you don't.

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Dotty Green - 28 Mar, 2023 - 10:21AM

O god I love kissing ...................

If I do not get fanny flutters and more... then nope.......................

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1588499 - 28 Mar, 2023 - 09:25AM

Slow, sensual, deliberate, almost hovering. The occasional brush of tongues. A kiss is every bit as intimate as sex.

Nothing worse than a messy, rushed attempt with tongues going in every direction. Yuk. The last girl I went on a date with, I thought I was going to get eaten. It's a deal-breaker.

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Beckysharp - 28 Mar, 2023 - 09:14AM

Lovely question!!

I think if you don’t enjoy kissing someone you won’t enjoy having sex with them. It’s such a good test of chemistry and compatibility. And such an enjoyable one too 😍

My lover is the best kisser. I still remember the first time he kissed me. I love that I can tell exactly how horny he is by how he’s kissing me too…

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