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Distance and how to get a reply?

I live in the far tip of Cornwall
Tried every website and app known to man for the last 4 years
There’s just no one local to me
Apart from the obvious answer of to move
What can I do to attract someone?
Post Covid everyone wants to buy a house in cornwall and Devon
But why does no one seem to want to date?

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1540854 - 17 May, 2023 - 12:19AM

I'm not adverse to some distance, alas, I've met some wonderful ladies in the past who were not always local and living rural the options locally are limited.

But there is the practicality issues. We are most married/taken and doing this behind our partners backs so spending a random day every week or two away from home is going to arose some suspicion.


MatureWorcsBBW - 23 Mar, 2023 - 02:10PM

I had a lovely holiday on the South coast just before Christmas.
I had a lovely brief holiday romance with a local widower.

He literally showed me his artwork and invited me to his studio.
A few drinks in the pub preceded the very lovely invitation.
Lunch overlooking the sea the next day.
Then he cooked dinner and I left at midnight smiling.
This became a habit as he was happy to volunteer to be my tour guide.

But what an interesting man too talk to.
I'm hoping to return again later this year.



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FluffyClouds - 22 Mar, 2023 - 01:14PM

P99, LG, Becky, TBH -

Thank you all πŸ₯°. Appreciate it, truly.

Anyway, back to the thread πŸ˜†

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Paula99 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 08:53PM

Fluffy …

You will make the right decision for you ..

🐻🐻🐻🐻

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Eliza Boo - 21 Mar, 2023 - 08:04PM

All power to you Fluffy - I'm sending love and light to you down the River Wharf! 😘

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Beckysharp - 21 Mar, 2023 - 06:25PM

Sending hugs FC. Hope you have some ranting space somewhere 😒

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Pink Eiga - 21 Mar, 2023 - 05:56PM

FluffyClouds - 21 Mar, 2023 - 04:45PM

More drama than EastEnders!
No we don’t want Mr Controlling!
And more important than having an IE, is full grip on your own sanity.

Make the right decision for you 😘

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FluffyClouds - 21 Mar, 2023 - 04:45PM

3rd attempt. ☠️

For the ladies, yep, this is a saga that's been going on and off for around 11 months. I've never discussed this on here. Like I said I had him blocked for my sanity, though he was my ideal. But last week I'd set up a new Telegram account and within two days he messaged on it 🀯. This happened before on 2nd attempt, he messaged from a different number 3 months of the initial split (yep, because I'd blocked him for my sanity). It sounds bad about the blocking, but to me, it was a rollercoaster and parts of the ride were not fun.

Anyway folks, last night I had an epiphany. I honest to God, can't go through it again with him. Once, I made that decision, I felt an immense rush of relief. I actually realised he's quite controlling, in an unpleasant way.

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1585013 - 20 Mar, 2023 - 10:04PM

Well .. to solve an issue ..

Perhaps the IE summer party could be held in Cornwall … this bringing the party selection to you ?


Eliza Boo - 20 Mar, 2023 - 08:34PM

Lots of smitten kittens on here...makes me happy ....purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

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