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Double Dippers

You meet someone here, start dating them, build the connection, but then see them still active on here... Yet they reassure you that they are absolutely into you, that everything is perfect, that you are the woman of their dreams. If you aren't sure they will be the one, create a backup of a backup, pause and think... How fair is that?I have ghosts upon ghosts returning, wondering why I abruptly ended dating. I value myself and know what I have to offer, and that is an exclusive and absolutely fantastic affair. I refuse to settle for double dippers.

Any one else agree?

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Peaches1 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 09:04PM

If it progressed to something of a sexual nature absolutely not for me. No second chances with me either. You are absolutely right to value yourself. I dont get off lying to my husband and dont expected to be lied to and treated like a notch in the bed post.

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MMCM69 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 08:42PM

I have to agree.. if you are fortunate to find a match on IE surely it would show a commitment to that other person and help with the affair we are wanting for whatever reason in our lives


EmnEm123 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 04:02PM

Angel 1982
You seem very bitter, this isn’t a love site, it’s a cheat site.
I have met guys and been treated well, I wouldn’t tolerate anything else.
If you are desperate for love and attention you are in the wrong place.
This should just be a bit of fun!

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1534883 - 12 Jan, 2024 - 11:08PM

I’ve had a terrible time with men on here. Been treated appallingly. I’m not sure why I expected anything else from married men who cheat but you hope that there’s someone else out there who’s looking for a genuine connection not just to use you as a placeholder until someone better comes along.

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Myladyeva - 11 Jan, 2024 - 06:13PM

Because they are players not only do they want to have there cake and eat it but they want the cherry on top to .

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Beckysharp - 11 Jan, 2024 - 01:15PM

That’s very sweet Mister E Mann. He was probably just happy that he ‘had’ me (was clear he didn’t want to end things) but was bored as we’d been seeing each other for years and hoping for better/newer etc.

Hopefully he’s found that now (I certainly did 😇)


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EmnEm123 - 10 Jan, 2024 - 09:53PM

I agree with you on this and I always say you are not with them then 24/7, could meet a prospect affair anywhere.

In the past I have come off here and deleted account so would have no idea if they were on here or not.

Also they can make up a fake account or a second account .....

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1614937 - 11 Jan, 2024 - 10:14AM

Beckysharp - 09 Jan, 2024 - 01:14PM

Do you think that he might have been checking to see if his wife (or daughter) was on here? Either way, it's unforgivable that he left you feeling hurt.

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Onekissmore - 11 Jan, 2024 - 03:42AM

Mmm, he’s not your husband and you’re on a site for an affair not a marriage proposal.
Maybe you need to rethink the site you’re on

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EmnEm123 - 10 Jan, 2024 - 09:53PM

If you can’t see your IE active here it doesn’t mean they aren’t active elsewhere.
If you are meeting people from this site then you are a cheat, or helping someone else to cheat.
It always amazes me how people can use their version of so called ‘morals and ethics’ to suit their own agenda.

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