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ExoticOrchid - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:55PM

The American term "making out" definitely sounds better!

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EmnEm123 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:41PM

SirraNek

Don't know about that here. Why do people need to be told the bleedin' obvious? 🤔

P99

What about a bit of 'how's your father'?

This may open a can of worms! 😀

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SirrahNek - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:31PM

EmnEm - I think it depends where you meet. If you’re in England (and I don’t know if this applies in Scotland) and you meet at a swimming pool or lido then you have to refer to it as heavy petting by law. Although then you’re not allowed to do it either.

Sometimes you just can’t win.

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Paula99 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:09PM

What expression should they use instead of ‘heavy petting ‘ ??……maybe ‘getting it on ‘ or having it off’…

Reminds me of Carry on films 😂😂😂

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EmnEm123 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 03:44PM

For me it would be never if the person I was meeting used the term 'heavy petting.'

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Boxbot100 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 03:11PM

Don’t think you can put a timescale on this! I feel like if it happens it will do so naturally. Some people connect immediately and if feels right straight away…with others it can take time! It’s very much situational in my experience

6foot3!! - 30 Apr, 2025 - 01:13PM

I suppose it all depends on the two individuals and what they expect. I’m guessing most people swap pics first to make sure they are attracted before the meet anyway?

SirrahNek - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:36AM

Davidnormal is correct. Take it slowly, take nothing for granted. Above all, don’t be desperate - and if you’re expecting something on a first date then maybe you’re on the wrong site? Actually, if you want something on the first date then maybe visit De Wallen instead?

You need to establish that connection. Is your date connect with you, does she want the same things as you? I certainly wouldn’t expect intimacy, not first time out anyway. Not to say that it won’t happen, of course, but good things come to those who wait.

Davidnormal - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:16AM

No simple answer, it all depends on how it goes at the time. I would never take anything for granted and I'd expect to take things slowly. Plus you can chat as much as you like, but until you meet someone in real life it's impossible to say how strong the attraction is (or isn't). But there have been occasions when a genuine coffee date has unexpectedly led to scrabbling round to find the nearest available hotel room. You just don't know how it will go.

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enchanter - 26 Apr, 2025 - 09:46PM

A chance would be a fine thing for me. Been a few days as newbie but lots of fakes but if I did meet then would certainly want some intimacy on the first meet up. Even passionate kisses will be ok

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