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MatureWorcsBBW - 19 Aug, 2021 - 05:10PM

If you crave attention while they're away, don't fret about it if you decide to go find attention elsewhere.

You're not the people who are in a committed and faithful relationship.

Just relax and enjoy yourself while they're relaxing and enjoying their holiday.

Nobody needs to know.

1466122 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 08:12PM

I think it's best to leave well alone until you hear from him.

Agree with ClassyLady77 on the whole

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1466122 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 08:12PM

I think it's best to leave well alone until you hear from him.

Agree with ClassyLady77 on the whole

Newblue - 15 Aug, 2021 - 07:44PM

Just leave them alone in holiday season. I looked at IEs FB pages because I had time on my hands while sitting on the beach. Cue major row and end of relationship when I discovered she was seeing someone else, which we had both agreed not to do.

Wasn't fun way to spend holiday, so if you're the one on holiday concentrate on sitting in deck chair and eating ice cream. If you're the one at home just go and have a lie down or something

Holiday time is not a good time for relationship angst.

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Realhousewife20 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 07:16PM

My IE of 9 months is currently on holiday from work so back home for 2 weeks( he lives away from home during the week when working) we will talk less on Kik than normal and won’t have our regular FaceTimes but both of us are already looking forward to him getting back for our next night together… I’m certainly not looking elsewhere and if you feel like that maybe your IE is not the perfect one for you.

ClassyLady77 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 04:27PM

It’s about communication before they go away and set ground rules on how you communicate. IF you have Kik or another secure messenger app then send them a message and they can reply when they can or reload app etc more private than a text or what’s app.. I did checked Kik once while I was away, toilet is good hiding place.. 😉

IF you need attention elsewhere when he's not around for a week you need help and to look at your current relationship and life.. 🤔

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ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2021 - 10:09AM

C980 - 08:58AM

Totally agree ... especially if the OP is a woman, her IE should worry ... if the OP is a married woman, even worse ... bunny and boiling comes to mind!!!

To the OP ... you're having an affair with a person whom you already know is married ... that person is not yours ... they have a life, just like you do (I hope!) ... get over it FFS!!!

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1458849 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 08:58AM

Surely you have your own life ? , concentrate on that at moment and if you get a message then lucky you , I still think this is obsessive behaviour and a tad worrying

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Maria Jones - 14 Aug, 2021 - 02:17PM

Be patient they're only away for a week in Cornwall let them have some peace in the end to end car park that they'll be navigating to get there. And yes that was me last week

1360266 - 14 Aug, 2021 - 09:49AM

Teresa di Vicenzo

Well said