Do you think a single like me should be on IE?
I have lived on my own for 10 years and know I'm not cut out for Living Together/Marriage at my age. I know my space and don't want to drive someone crazy. I still want to meet up with someone who is seeking connection, including exclusivity to the right person. Am I the only one like this?
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1642942 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 04:12PM
Singles can live apart and spend time together when the passion drives them
Paula99 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 04:02PM
To say it’s the ‘single’ ones who cause the problem if the OP is married/attached is not strictly true..
If you meet a ‘bunny boiler ‘ then she/ he is going to behave in the same way no matter what their relationship status is …they are as narcissists..😕
midsmaleJ - 12 Mar, 2024 - 02:58PM
There's no reason for singles not to be here. I had a lover, not via IE, who was single, she just called me up when she wanted to spend the day in bed and we had a lot of fun. She just had needs but wasn't really looking to get into a relationship. Interestingly, once she met someone I was surplus to requirements, and that was perfectly fine.
Ciao1970 - 23 Feb, 2024 - 05:33PM
Definitely not alone on this! I've lived alone for 4 years now, and loving it! The girlfriend comes over to mine once every 2 weeks, and am quite happy when she leaves, so i can watch the rugby, and tuck into a big bag of crisps lol!
Tall, dark and dominant - 23 Feb, 2024 - 01:48PM
I have no problem at all with singles. Just as long as you don’t expect to leave our other halves to join you in singledom.
I don’t care if a lady is single, married, divorced, widowed, living in a Religious commune with multiple husbands. It’s the person that counts.
Life is a beach - 18 Feb, 2024 - 02:04AM
Shame on people for single bashing!!!!
If you are single and on this site, you know that most of us here are in a relationship and have something missing.
Nothing wrong with singles being on this site. You would know what to expect 😘.
Answer to the question, yes, absolutely, you can be exclusive with your IE if you both want to. We are.
I think sometimes married people like me think perhaps wrongly that single people have it far easier to meet whenever which I must admit I am jealous of 😅
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ExoticOrchid - 17 Feb, 2024 - 08:33PM
powerlady - 10:38AM
Welcome ... myself and L&E have pretty much been defending ourselves against relentless single bashing here so thank you for your input! 👏
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powerlady - 16 Feb, 2024 - 10:38AM
This is a great place to be single and have a non 24/7 relationship where both parties benefit and you can each give your best to the other aspects of your life. Some of the nicest men I have met on here are more fulfilled in having an illicit relationship and go home happier and content to be a great husband and father. I dont want to be married again or deal with domestic issues so being on IE means I get the best of a man and his attention where it matters and his other half can deal with the rest.
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Happy Henry - 14 Feb, 2024 - 11:09PM
@OP
No .. and, for sure, it can take a lifetime to realise 'what sort of person' you are. I have 'committed' to a relationship twice in my life and it is only now that I realise this is something I just can't do ... not 24/7 - and its not that I'm looking for something else - I just need time ... a p a r t ....
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