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Unsurebutdetermined - 18 Apr, 2024 - 11:33PM

Evening all. In fairness, and certainly in my experience, the excitement helps to make the mundane less mundane, the frustrating, less frustrating, and the comfort of knowing that there’s someone out there that yearns to share those stolen few hours away from normality in the throes of passion, just makes everything so much less crap. Smiling that knowing smile to yourself, awaiting that next message, that next cheeky picture, it just gives balance to what invariably has become a shit situation that has led to being here in the first place x

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Ciao1970 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 07:09PM

I realised my ex was cheating on me when I kept seeing new, more "exotic" and revealing underwear on the line. I didn't ask her why she had bought them......I already knew!
next thing I did was go buy myself some Calvin Klein briefs lol!

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Paula99 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 06:11PM

Everything must be done in plain sight…🤔

Think Doctor Harold Shipman everyone he murdered was all done in the light of day …..( Thats not an excuse to start knocking your affairs 😂😂😂😂..)

Robert24 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 05:57PM

I think Paula has it right, just update the undies gradually , same as Exotic Orchid said, but have lots of fun

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The Temptress - 17 Apr, 2024 - 12:08PM

It can we quite hard keeping that smile off your face, especially when I get the "Good Morning" message.

Currently counting down the days and hours until our meet, weather is looking good. He is very good with his comms so far, we both have times when work restraints get in the way, but then we both make up for it. Fingers crossed we will have the same chemistry in real life that we have already.

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ExoticOrchid - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:23PM

NO - 09:13AM

Hide in plain sight ... buy a few and "flaunt" them openly ... leave the shopping bag and receipts where they can be seen.

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Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:17PM

My partner was fixing my chest of drawers a few weeks back and he said ..Are those pink undies for me ?
So I said No…they not your size 😂

He wouldn’t have noticed ….normally I tend to wear sports underwear but it’s the colour that sent him into the land of the horn …..🙄

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Marlen - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:02PM

As regards the OP, if you can't mask the excitement with feigned indifference, like a normal day, you will get caught sooner rather than later. Compartmentalise. Like when you're intimate with your legal partner and thinking about something else....

As regards the fancy underwear, tough call if you don't wear at home......Still you can always go bold and say you bought it to feel empowered. Besides, what's the chance of a 'male' partner rooting through the laundry bin to check your smalls? If they're that suspicious you've bigger problems.
Men aren't so lucky... lipstick stains,on your boxers etc. are a tad difficult to explain away!😁

Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 11 Apr, 2024 - 03:22PM

Obviously no one here knows how to play poker.

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Bellab50 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 02:52PM

Enjoy it while you have it, carry on enjoying the buzz.