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Pictures....

Hello,

Just wondering what kind of photos I should be uploading? I assumed nice smile etc - maybe some more posed and others more natural...

But recently someone sent me access to photos that were quite explicit - am I supposed to be matching this?! I thought these type of pics were frowned upon...

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1661271 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:21PM

I would up load casual appearing photos with casual clothing and see if anyone sensible responds


1642398 - 02 Apr, 2024 - 01:02AM

Just regular photos that you a comfortable with . Nobody wants those unsolicited graphic pics just appearing on the screen !


Scott of the Antartic - 01 Apr, 2024 - 11:41PM

A few honest and genuine recent photos. You will be found out if and when you meet.


Oldboy 74 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 02:59PM

If all you want is sex wether attracted to each other or not then maybe explicit pics are all you need. For me all a photo does is allows you to explore whether you could be attracted to each other, remember pictures can lie, I know I am a photographer. So I think a facial or even a full, clothed body shot is a starting point. You will never know if you are going to click until you meet up.

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Funguy77 - 07 Mar, 2024 - 12:34PM

Simply one full length and one close up facial lol no happy ending 😂


R Deckard - 07 Mar, 2024 - 08:04AM

Option 3
Pictures to upload: two.
Picture one: me in a suit.
Picture two: me in gym gear (compression shirt, anyone?)
Both headless. Yep.
I only share the unbeheaded pictures if our chat sounds promising, and then only a day before our first meet.
Likewise, I don't ask for pictures until the day before our meet. In fact, I offer (technically, I dare) the lady to either have a blind date, or share pictures. Her choice. [Here's a secret: I only offer the blind date option when I am reasonably certain she's attractive. How do I do that, without pictures? Well that's a trade secret]
Pros: it immediately filters out pic collectors, fantasists and general time wasters and it is extremely safe. Also, the thrill of a blind date is hard to beat.
Cons: it requires sound judgment and intuition to assess if someone is interesting from just reading their messages. And I acknowledge they are both in short supply.
Success rate: no complaints. Three were blind dates, and I had to stay cool and stop my jaw from

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pariahd - 06 Mar, 2024 - 11:18PM

Well whatever you post, have the courtesy to return a password….


Thinkingwomanshunk - 06 Mar, 2024 - 04:23PM

As a male, if you have suggestive photos uploaded, especially your profile picture it will generally mean the conversation will go down the more sexual route. Do you want that? If I see a nice pair of Babs of course I'm going to comment.

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Porto69 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 09:46PM

No, definitely not, be very careful.


Porto69 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 09:45PM

Be careful what you upload. A lady on here took my photographs and she was scammer! Had a call from Nigeria later that night. Watch your WhatsApp for Bogus numbers!

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