Comments (98)

Paula99 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 08:52PM

EE123…

I like to think I am straight with people and I am not the ‘ghosting type ‘ …you are correct
I think you hit the nail on the head 👍

EmnEm123 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 08:38PM

Paula

Somehow I don't see you as the ghosting type, you're quite upfront.

He was probably hoping that you would be interested so that he could knock you back.

Paula99 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 06:25PM

I was speaking with a guy from here …he contacted me first ..I told him I wasn’t interested…then he said we had chatted before …clearly he had changed his name and his age ..then he said …he decided not to bother because I ghosted him…then he blocked me …

Oddball 🤔

Bumbercatch77 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 10:40AM

Re EmnEm123

I’m sorry you experienced that, I wish those type of men would realise that their shitty behaviour spoils it for everyone. Personally I would be delighted if I got any sort of response from a female on this site and I certainly wouldn’t dish out any abuse to anyone for any reason.


I actually received a nice message on Monday from a lady who saw my profile and said she would like the challenge. today I discovered her account is deleted.

Why does being ghosted hurt so much, it shouldn’t but it does

FM1991 - 10 Apr, 2024 - 12:12AM

“Are you a squirrel, because I’d like to bury my nuts in you”

And it doesn’t even make sense really when you think about it 😂

SunnyDaze743 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 11:31PM

Be yourself. Experiment. How’s that ?

EmnEm123 - 05 Apr, 2024 - 03:11PM

First message VK, from him, viewed profile, not for me.
Sent polite message, good luck etc, only to be bombarded with the c word, another weird c word on here.
Needing a cock up c word.
That was yesterday from a guy in Edinburgh.
In future if I am not interested there will be no reply.
This is perhaps the most objectionable message I have received however, not the first abuse I have received for politely declining.
I don't believe that I can be the first member this person has messaged like that.

ChocolateAubergine - 03 Apr, 2024 - 09:41AM

Best message, was a simple "you sound like someone i am looking for, I would love to get to know you."

Most unique message was just a PW to her naked photos where in some of them she was being impaled by different men... she followed this with "what would you do?"

I responded by saying "wonder what your relationship with your dad was like."

Curses and then the inevitable block followed but i had a good chuckle.

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Baltibob - 03 Apr, 2024 - 07:47AM

Cannot understand someone whose first message is a virtual kiss then ignoring the response.sent to them saying thank you, do you want to chat?

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ayefondkiss - 28 Mar, 2024 - 02:51PM

well - the best one I’ve heard of was someone saying “you can be my slave for ever, and all I need is a down payment of 200 pounds…”