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SirrahNek - 13 Apr, 2025 - 07:36PM

@Kent I suppose that depends on what you want and what you can afford. If you want a quick ONS then no, this probably isn’t for you. If you’re short on money then this probably isn’t for you either. If you can afford it, and if you can bide your time for the right woman, then yes - total agreement with Funguy. But, personally, I have no regrets - I feel it was money well spent.

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1610442 - 13 Apr, 2025 - 09:18AM

@Kent

I have been a paid member on and of for 3 years now
Yes it’s ridiculously expensive but without it you really can’t meet anyone on here.

I would say dip your toe with a short membership but make sure to turn off recurring payments and use a card only you have access to and the statements.

But ultimately you could just use that money to go out and meet someone? . Before you embark on this journey consider the financial consequences.

Membership fee
Food and drink ? If dating
Travel costs
Hotel
And finally can you handle the price of the ticket to ride the emotional rollercoaster

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Kent guy345 - 12 Apr, 2025 - 11:47PM

Have people paid the upgrade fee is it worth it have you met people through this app

EmnEm123 - 11 Apr, 2025 - 09:57PM

What is classed as vanilla these days?

LadyDe - 11 Apr, 2025 - 09:36PM

@smoothsailing77

I think you’re looking more for the APP ‘Feeld’

SirrahNek - 11 Apr, 2025 - 07:22PM

What are people after? Reading the forums, it seems that a no-holds-barred shag fest is what people are after. Perhaps that’s just true of people chatting on the forums but…

…reading the profiles…

…I think a lot of people are feeling lonely, or unloved. There’s talk of butterflies, and that’s part of it, but I think that the writers just want to feel wanted and loved. They want someone to hold their hand and kiss them, and tell them that they’re beautiful. It’s not seedy, or dishonest, it’s just wanting to live your best life.

Caveat… The profiles I’ve read have been largely those written by women, and largely in the age group 40ish to 60ish.

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Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2025 - 12:13PM

There are times when we have not enough choice or too much choice …ask yourself is it going to make your IE experience any quicker or more manageable ?

We might as well have a port for cooking and house keeping ….eh 😂😂

Smooth sailing77..
People don’t advertise they are players/idiots but clearly there are here….If you are looking for non vanilla then you may be on the wrong site …plus one thing I do know is a sub chooses her dom and not the other way around …☺️

Smoothsailing77 - 11 Apr, 2025 - 11:58AM

I have a non-vanilla side to me and therefore my ideal is to find someone with a similar open mindedness. Its not easy to find here as either most people are vanilla or those that aren’t don’t advertise it in their profiles. Maybe there could be an offshoot of IE for that community where they feel they can be open?😉

Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2025 - 06:35AM

It dosen’t really matter what type of affair you are interested in …most don’t know what they want anyway …….sometimes we can initiate something and get caught up in the thin line( I was having a debate about this yesterday ) between caring and falling in love …I hear you all saying it will never happen to me but be careful what you wish for ….remember the one thing we all have in common is we can all get discovered 🤥

Valleytop - 11 Apr, 2025 - 05:13AM

Amongst the usual seeking affairs we are seeeking a bit more sexual adventure. Interesting chats with those exploring IE’s new adventure options.