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What is the most romantic thing an IE has ever done for you?

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phillyd - 21 May, 2020 - 01:25PM

lushlips 1978. There are a few of us around. Only one for me.

1386447 - 21 May, 2020 - 01:04PM

Asked for a threesome….x

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Nitsgoa - 21 May, 2020 - 07:44AM

Hi Sweetie2020...like ur profile!

1350989 - 13 May, 2020 - 10:35PM

Would be nice to find one bloke, no faffing around bed hopping .... I’m dreaming and still here🙄

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 13 May, 2020 - 09:33PM

Not much, we’re both married so to dart off somewhere exotic would be tricky. For me though, to have him just lean across in a restaurant or bar, or even in a shop queue, to kiss me is romantic and not something I’m used to at all. Sometimes it’s the little things

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 13 May, 2020 - 09:31PM

BrownEyedGirl01 - 12 May, 2020 - 08:29PM

Hmmmm earlier posts 🤔 The Ivy 🤔

1334304 - 12 May, 2020 - 08:29PM

Keto555.... and you’re still on here?.... 🤔

Dancing In The Rain - 12 May, 2020 - 07:49PM

Haha..not much but I once created a MP3 that looked like a tape and recorded all our songs on it ... she loved it but then decided to divorce and go legit..so we had to move on.

Still, loved the process, felt like a teenager again 😎

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1272141 - 11 May, 2020 - 09:56AM


You met in the lockdown?

And admitted it here?


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1383572 - 11 May, 2020 - 09:34AM

He joined two weeks ago for 12 weeks; found me on day two of joining; after two weeks and two meetings he deleted his profile yesterday for me because he wants exclusivity .💋💋💋💋💋

1334304 - 10 May, 2020 - 10:51PM

Being taken to the most romantic city in the world and bring completely spoiled with his undivided attention 🥰

1357586 - 09 May, 2020 - 06:58AM

Only had one IE so far and he lied about a lot of things, which is odd as I'd have thought this would be the ideal place to be honest.

I'm not interested in being taken to expensive places or anything like that, as nice as I'm sure all that is, honesty is far more appealing

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1332870 - 08 May, 2020 - 01:44PM

Took me to Dublin for a weekend. Fortunately there was a hen party on the same flight who let me take some alibi pictures with them

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Toften2 - 08 May, 2020 - 01:42PM

I have only been a member of IE 4 days, as was looking this correspondence for ideas....
As I get most pleasure from giving rather than receiving.....
Which may seem out of character for someone who describes themselves as confident, assertive and out going...
Hope all you Guys & Girls manage to enjoy a Smiley Weekend.

1383572 - 08 May, 2020 - 01:01PM

It was our first meeting; he paid for my train fare to London coupled with a beautiful hotel room for me alone. He took me to an exclusive Private members club afterwards then dinner at The Ivy . Nothing happened but he showed me that he knew my worth. Lovely man 👨.

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Sweetie2020 - 08 May, 2020 - 11:56AM

You had an Amazing date 👍🏻😉😉

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1272141 - 08 May, 2020 - 10:15AM

She had made preliminary arrangements for us to return to her homeland. Where we would have lived very well in idyllic conditions. But she has to remain here. That was many years ago.

NaughtyBoy86 - 07 May, 2020 - 11:28PM

Good Evening

CoastalDreams - 07 May, 2020 - 11:08PM

Romance?? One can dream ... no luck so far and I’m becoming somewhat despondent!

1360475 - 07 May, 2020 - 11:03PM

Evening all

happyguynextdoor - 07 May, 2020 - 10:38PM

Hi everyone...

SheDevil - 07 May, 2020 - 10:37PM

So far nothing.

1376072 - 07 May, 2020 - 10:13PM

Hello everyone

1376072 - 07 May, 2020 - 10:11PM

MatureworcsBBW I like to join you on that x

MatureWorcsBBW - 07 May, 2020 - 09:56PM

I've had a rather luxurious picnic once, with a previous lover who I'd known for over a year.

It was late September but so warm outside.
We drove down some dead end country lane, looking back, it could so easily have been a plot for a horror movie slaying.

I just had a long dress to my ankles on.
He had a lovely short sleeved summer shirt on with stylish linen shorts.

We, mostly me, drank some bubbly.
We fed each other food and slowly got smoochy and then totally naked.
We spent quite a few hours indulging each other, right there, in the lane, in the car, on the grass, over the bonnet of the car, up against a tree and beside a little stream. Over and over and over again.
The day seemed endless.

No interruptions from anyone.
Just total, total bliss.

I'd like more of the same with someone new.

Is that someone new on on IE, I wonder?
I do hope so.

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ExoticOrchid - 07 May, 2020 - 09:50PM

Suffolk Punch - 07 May, 2020 - 09:25PM
"Was that romantic?"

Probably to her but not my idea of romance … to me, it sounds like she wants to be your slave … to each their own of course. Did you think it was romantic?

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1371999 - 07 May, 2020 - 09:49PM

For me, when I was on here before and had my initial thoughts on the person I felt attracted too, I actually met someone who I’d never of gone with let alone thought of and simple , looks are not everything , personality and chemistry is first, looks may be of value somewhat but the saying goes never judge a book by its cover, and my encounter that was so true, my encounter with an awesome lady lasted nearly a year and I and her had so much fun.

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1365194 - 07 May, 2020 - 09:25PM

In a previous life I enjoyed two years of thrills with a married lady from IE. She was very subservient and was prepared do anything for me! I am not an overtly Dominant man, but enjoyed her determination to serve.
On my birthday, off her own bat, she had a tattoo done on her lower back in the style of a Chinese character that depicted a vice. Indicative of the hold I had on her, so that whenever I took her from behind I was reminded that she was mine.
She got her husband to pay for it and told him it was just a Chinese character that she liked!
Was that romantic?

1374374 - 07 May, 2020 - 09:16PM

I also make it clear that I am not after one night stands or sexting. What I am looking for is an affair based on mutual respect and understanding. Unfortunately, still looking.

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fred14 - 07 May, 2020 - 09:15PM

I've not met anyone yet, but still looking and hoping

1365842 - 07 May, 2020 - 08:58PM

Always wanted to do a Spaghetti Kiss 😂

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1383770 - 07 May, 2020 - 08:55PM

Looking still haven't found the lady to hug hold to see them eye

Lillib - 07 May, 2020 - 08:26PM

@tea_coffee_me_ yes so true some have no romance at home and may find it here

Lillib - 07 May, 2020 - 08:24PM

@Delphina so true some wants sextexts and phone sex, I agree it’s okay if you really like me and we get along and we will finally meet up. It’s so annoying when that’s all you want. Some wants to turn you to model, telling you how to take pics😠. Guys be real...... anyway I know my IE is out there somewhere. I can’t wait to meet you🤗

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ExoticOrchid - 07 May, 2020 - 08:21PM

Delphina - 07 May, 2020 - 08:05PM
"How can I make a comment straight to someone here?"

Like you just did to Gilette42?
Female to female private messaging is not possible I'm afraid.

JMB108 - 07 May, 2020 - 08:19PM

Queen Bee, sex after romance is so much more exhilarating, it's the build up and then the passionate explosion. That's what I'm here to find again

Delphina - 07 May, 2020 - 08:05PM

How can I make a comment straight to someone here?

Delphina - 07 May, 2020 - 08:01PM

Lucky youu, make the most of this dear,
I talk qirh a lot as well but all seems to want only sextexts or phonesex no one is serious, its all about sex, sex and sex
Im fed up with it
Where are all the gentlemen???? 😪😪

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NewYearMan - 07 May, 2020 - 07:47PM

, Anyone found lockdown loving yet?

tea_coffee_me_ - 07 May, 2020 - 07:07PM

" Tuxedo112 - Isn't the idea more about illicit pleasures than romance?"
" Queenbee34 - Not sure if everyone is looking for romance though"

People are looking for different things ... some do not have any romance at home and do want the return of that ...
Yes some just want to meet ... sex ...bye ... that is why people need to be honest about what they want.
I make it clear, that that does not work for me, so hopefully no time wasted with the wrong person.

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1328172 - 07 May, 2020 - 06:46PM

Not sure if everyone is looking for romance though

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Gillette42 - 07 May, 2020 - 06:23PM

I get to speak to so many decent people here, so impressed with the quality of guys... IE has brought a lot of smile to me but equally made it so hard to choose the one... building my pipeline of men to choose the best when I finally get to meet them xx thank you

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tea_coffee_me_ - 07 May, 2020 - 06:20PM

" Tuxedo112 - Isn't the idea more about illicit pleasures than romance?"
People are looking for different things ... some do not have any romance at home and do want the return of that ...

Mellowandsoft - 07 May, 2020 - 06:18PM

Connected me with a liberating, fabulous, confidante and soul mate. As if by magic. And then she had to up sticks and emigrate (not because of me I'd like to point out). Can you do it again please...?

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1368132 - 07 May, 2020 - 06:03PM

@No-one-niter & @RebelDomina

And sadly that tars even the decent men all with the same brush....
I daresay some male members here would say the same applies to the ladies but I would prefer to believe that proper caring discreet "relationships" can co-exist with our normal lives if there is genuine openness on both sides....
I may yet see my fingers badly burned....

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RebelDomina - 07 May, 2020 - 05:47PM


Haha...I've been there...
that's why I rather "honesty" to exclusivity these days.
It's very romantic to know what we are getting ourselves truly into.
It takes real balls imo.

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1383766 - 07 May, 2020 - 05:08PM

Hi pennyfem

1368132 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:56PM

Well I clearly wasn't that student 😂 but the scenario has remarkable similarities of a experience with my Sociology lecturer... I had stayed in halls across the summer vacation and we went for a picnic... I probably knew what was on the menu... It remains a beautiful memory and was amazingly romantic as it happens.... 😇😁

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Tuxedo112 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:31PM

@WendyforWooing - that's it: absolutely encapsulates the illicit thrill, the unexpected flirt, leading to liberating urgent passionate. You've never forgotten it, have you? And I bet you 've thought about it more than once since...? Am I right?!

1262378 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:26PM

I'm waiting, so must she. Wherever she may be?

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1383195 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:25PM

Well not here... But some years ago I had picked up an erotica novel from an underground book stand and spent the afternoon reading it in Regents Park with a bottle of wine....
Entirely unrelated a student lad starting chatting too as he was reading for his course...
The chat moved to flirting and then.... Well guess the rest... Open air very liberating....

Tuxedo112 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:25PM

Isn't the idea more about illicit pleasures than romance?

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1360846 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:18PM

Nothing! Unless finding out he closed his account and set up another profile after promising We’d be exclusive. So romantic 😀

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A fish called wanda - 07 May, 2020 - 04:10PM

Nothing so far. :-(

1373861 - 07 May, 2020 - 04:08PM

It’s very early days for me as I’m relatively new to the site, but I got a kik add from it, so things are really looking up for me. 😂😂

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AAGilfan - 07 May, 2020 - 04:07PM

Sometimes with an IE it is actually the simple things which are the most romantic - I remember being able to meet a long term IE at the weekend (most unusual) on a sunny summer evening where we were able to spend our time walking along the river, chatting away, getting close to each other and having dinner overlooking the river. There was no sexual agenda that night, just time spent together in each other's company and feeling v comfortable and relaxed, having good food and wine. It all just felt so natural and easy together, chatting about everything and nothing.....

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Lillib - 07 May, 2020 - 04:07PM

Still waiting........

Ava1Seven - 07 May, 2020 - 03:35PM

I was once swept away for a romantic getaway at the lake district. We'd planned to go away for ages, but he kept the location a surprise. It was amazing

littleblondie - 07 May, 2020 - 03:31PM

Absolutely nothing...

1091782 - 07 May, 2020 - 03:30PM

Absolutely nothing!
Looks like I've picked all the wrong men 🤦😂

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1376887 - 07 May, 2020 - 03:02PM

@Pussyinboots1 that is the best so far.

Brought to mind how shocked I was when my first husband took me to see Henry V on a surprise weekend away.

Sweetie2020 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:53PM


Sweetie2020 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:51PM

I’m haven’t been naughty on this site
Bit scared to be honest!😂😂
I have a complicated life!
I just want to have a nice date with a nice man
If I’m lucky!
But I’m fussy tho 😂😂🙈

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ExoticOrchid - 07 May, 2020 - 02:50PM

Pussyinboots1 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:38PM

Now that is romantic!!!

Pussyinboots1 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:38PM

I oncehad a relationship with a builder, he was very Alpha male and into his sports. Imagine my surprise when he took to on a secret date to the ballet. It worked, I was putty in his hands afterwards!

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1363423 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:24PM

After a lot of indecision I paid the sub as I liked what I saw. I cannot wait to start chatting with people near me. This is so exciting and I have a lot of passion to give.

Bob100 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:22PM

Liking me.

1381376 - 07 May, 2020 - 02:13PM

None as yet.... but I am a newbie! Can’t wait till we are allowed out to meet

ExoticOrchid - 07 May, 2020 - 02:00PM

Reading the comments, it is very interesting how the meaning of "romantic" is interpreted as! ;-)

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Bugwithone - 07 May, 2020 - 01:43PM

Having stirrings in all the right places!!!

Jamie_1 - 07 May, 2020 - 12:56PM

Have met a few long term ladies through IE. Had some very erotic times over a number of years. Never had anyone get heavy and it has been the perfect mutual arrangement. As long as no one gets hurt then this is a refreshing way to keep feeling wanted without the baggage of a normal relationship.

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AAGilfan - 07 May, 2020 - 12:53PM

Confessed to her real age, revealing that she was 10 years older than her profile and therefore 15 years old than me :-)

I laughed my arse off and told her that I knew she was older than she had professed but that it didn't matter as we were having so much fun and a great time in bed together.....

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1358651 - 07 May, 2020 - 12:50PM

My first date has been a surprise itself on my birthday. I just invited him for our first meet on my birthday as I had no plans for lunch but he made it extra special by booking the restaurant and whilst it was dessert time, he ordered a cake with a candle and a waiter singing ‘happy birthday’ for me! That little thought counted as I have not been treated like that for a long time!
Then he has been sending me personalised songs for me every morning pre lockdown, something that he feels for me rather than sending any random songs! That made me feel so special but now due to being stuck in lockdown, he isn’t doing anything as such.
So waiting for this lockdown to end so we can pursue our relationship!!

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1376887 - 07 May, 2020 - 12:43PM

Went to a boutique hotel in the Peak District for the weekend, one of my friends was my cover story. Had a lovely meal in a french restaurant, some walks and just enjoyed that length of time together.

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1355384 - 07 May, 2020 - 12:28PM

2 spring to mind!!

A lovely flirty picnic in St James's park!

And then a surprise lunch in Mayfair.....had to call the office that was feeling a little under the weather!

Just the little things can be the most fun!

1373838 - 07 May, 2020 - 12:09PM

Two years ago on a summer's day in mid August I took my IE out of London to a coastal town in the south east where I grew up. After some standard sight seeing we ended up on a bench on a cliff directly facing the sea.

We sat there for over two hours watching the sunset whilst engaging in some VERY erotic acts. As night came upon us, we went back to my car. We were both in the back seat and could barely see each other in the near total darkness that we were in. We were left almost completely to our auditory and tactile sensations. I remember the heavy breathing, the intense kissing, the soft touching and so much more. The entire car steamed up completely - Titanic style. I still think about that day from time to time. I remember the sheer eroticism of doing something so passionate in public. She was irresistibly sexy and a complete goddess of a woman.

We drove back to London and I dropped her off to her house at 3am. I had sore hamstrings for a month afterwards. The most erotic encounter of my life.

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Living every day - 07 May, 2020 - 12:06PM

I had a date with a lovely lady who I met on IE. It wasn't our first date, but this was a hot summers day and as usual I was to pick her up about a mile from her house. She walked to me and was wearing just a short flowing summer dress. Thats just the dress. No panties, no bra. Such a gutsy lady to walk through village like to meet me. It was a great date.

SAYSomething x - 07 May, 2020 - 11:46AM

coffeetime - ha, ha
Absolutely the look I was going for!

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coffeetime - 07 May, 2020 - 11:44AM

Feeling Frisky

You must have looked like an international spy..did you say.." I will say this only once"??

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SAYSomething x - 07 May, 2020 - 11:18AM

OK I'm going to flip this one, and tell you the most romantic thing I think I'VE done...

Met up in a nice boutique hotel at the bar for a drink, it was a sunshiny spring day, but still a tad nippy.

I wore a floor length black burberry trench coat, a black sunhat, stockings and high heeled boots, with bright red lipstick and sunglasses. I whispered into his ear to tell him I'm wearing absolutely nothing underneath the coat...

We had a drink then moved onto the hotel room, where I allowed my lover to help remove my coat...

Figure out the rest ;-)

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RumplesBear - 07 May, 2020 - 11:14AM


It's like dating pre technology or with apps

You'll speak to 10 people in a bar / on Tinder (other apps available)
5 may reply
3 will fizzle out
2 may progress into meeting up or a date
???? From there.

RumplesBear - 07 May, 2020 - 11:11AM

1382919 - 07 May, 2020 - 11:03AM

Anyone signed up for membership and think its worth it?

RumplesBear - 07 May, 2020 - 10:59AM

We kept things simple, split costs not to raise suspicions with work etc. But she booked somewhere nice out the way. Her plan was a nice overnight get away.

We ended up having a few drinks, getting pizza and having a right laugh. Physical side is obviously important, but sometimes, just basic interaction is a breathe of fresh air if communication is stone walled at home.

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There and back - 07 May, 2020 - 10:23AM

Still awaiting that phenomenon to happen here!

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1353301 - 07 May, 2020 - 10:16AM

Still waiting for that to happen have plans
For after lock down , I once got sent a video song , that made my day

forgottentimes - 07 May, 2020 - 09:50AM

It's the small things for me, the good morning messages when he knows I have gone to work or the surprise gifts here and there that are discreet enough to take home

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LLadd - 07 May, 2020 - 09:38AM

My IE once booked us into a lovely 5 star hotel in central London. I always paid for dates but she wanted to treat me

SexyWinterLoving! - 07 May, 2020 - 09:31AM

I've had some brilliant IE dates but my most recent IE (before lockdown) took me to Jersey for a daytrip

We set off early morning and had a lovely romantic lunch, landing home just in time to have been for 'drinks after work'

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