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1382044 - 09 May, 2020 - 09:41AM

We communicate by e mail most days and text and telephone when safe to do so.

We have also been a walk together keeping a good distance apart and shouting across the gap, unclear from the guidelines whether this is allowed.

We have only been able to do this because we live locally to each other byw.

Kismet - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:58PM

know any good ones? @ Arabelle not the most tech savvy

bumblebee2015 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:57PM

hiiiiiii!

1376887 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:57PM

@checkmate304 yes there are apps you can use

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Kismet - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:55PM

@arabelle how do you get a secret folder? is this on an iphone?

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1353432 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:54PM

I’m keeping it alive by lots of texting and flirty fun. It’s still fun in the virtual world. Takes imagination and time which we have bucket loads of at the mo. 🤣🤣🤣

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1376887 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:52PM

@mews0001 secret folders are the way forward, I have a photo one too. Very handy.

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1376887 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:49PM

I’ve not long joined so I’m just taking my time. A good IE often starts out as a slow burner. There’s no rush right now, so it gives me time to get to know people.

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AAGilfan - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:44PM

I'm with MatureWorcsBBW on this. She is spot on: be kind to each other. Its great to have a chance for preliminary chats which can lead to good conversation and learning more about each other before you take things further. That's always the best way.

From past pre-lockdown experience with IEs, having had good chats there have been quite a few occasions we have met but the chemistry, from a sexual perspective, was not quite there. But having got to know the other through our chats, we got on well as friends and stayed in touch and have helped and advised each other ever since. There is a lot to be got out of this site, not just the obvious.

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1381527 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:36PM

I am new here - I sense a racing anticipation of getting free and all that entails !

Mews0001 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:35PM

GarminGPS,

You're just not using your imagination. You can rearrange the bins everyday to make very different configurations.

Oh, we're not talking about bins are we? Lol

Well, apply the bin analogy to one's sex life. It's all about imagination and experimentation ;-)

Kismet - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:34PM

@John1185 - I chatted to the man I'm seeing for months before we met to be honest. I wouldn't lose hope, must be loads of people in the same position here! Deciding to have an affair is a big step, a rewarding and exciting step sure, but a big one none the less. It's good to get to know one another for awhile, take things slow, there's no hurry. Nobody here is looking to walk down the aisle again, so take your time is my adv ;-)

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1375686 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:31PM

Now wouldn't that be a nice problem to have, some of us haven't even got off the ground with our IE relationships yet!

Kismet - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:31PM

I think it's vital to keep checking in on eachother and keeping things fun and upbeat. We're all grown ups here we can deal with some shorterm distance, it's not like you see your ie everyday normally anyway. If anything, I feel the distance has even made the heart grow fonder, and I really feel that I can't wait to meet up again soon. Texts, calls, photos, videos if permissable. Lots of love xx

GarminGPS - 28 Apr, 2020 - 01:05PM

Some say lockdown should be renamed cockdown 😞

The furthest most peeps get outside is taking the bins out....and that takes a week of planning and excitement 🤣😂🤣

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Sweetie2020 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:52PM

That’s scary!!😂😂
Better I try it then 😂😂🙈

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1367873 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:44PM

Sexsy1xxx

Your partner in crime must be very lucky then as he gets a 24/7 entertainment 😂😘

MatureWorcsBBW - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:41PM

I think it's probably much the same as relationships not found on IE.

I'm phoning, emailing, using Zoom etc, for my actual real friends and those who are in contact fairly regularly, are the people who will be my main priority to meet up with once this crisis has ended.

The only real difference on here is trying to speak to one another. Difficult because people are home, possibly self isolating with their partners.
But I have patience and am in no great rush.

We can still get preliminary introductions started and see where that leads us.

Be kind to each other folks.

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1373861 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:40PM

Same here, not sure what to do but try and go with the flow of it.

1367873 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:38PM

@Sweetie2020
Welcome to the crime scene lol
It's a website for spark searchers and naughty business centre 😂😂

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Banter-Gent - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:37PM

Woooooooooooooo

Zallam - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:36PM

By talking to multiple cam girls on here

1353301 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:31PM

Sweet sinner

That's what I do , I'm sure a lot of that does go on , I'm always surprisingly coming up with new
Sexy bedroom talk , to the point of excitement
Being pleasuring 😜

1343636 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:29PM

Above all, resist the urge to fill the gaps. Infrequent bursts of intimate texting fuels the expectation before the next message and stops it becoming routine. Escaping routine is what many of us joined for so resist the urge to message regularly. Putting up the odd interesting photo for a couple of hours does wonders for morale!

Sweetie2020 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:26PM

Afternoon all I’m new here
I don’t what’s going on this website ?😱😂😂

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Mews0001 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:19PM

As sweetsinner says, but apart from chat, go one further and act out some roleplay, exchange pics/videos that are a turn on.
Before anyone says "what if my other half finds out?" that's what secret folders are for, along with VERY good passwords!!

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1367873 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:06PM

Improvisation specially bedroom talk and try to visualise new and erotic ideas to try with your IE crime partner makes things on fire as long as possible 😂

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1373861 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 12:02PM

Good afternoon all on ie, is there anyone here today?

1353301 - 28 Apr, 2020 - 08:47AM

Oh well ....best leave that one to the imagination .

Plenty contact every day , sending pics and chatting , planning dates and sharing interests
Basically keeping them interested .