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Paula99 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 03:02PM

The guy in question is clearly a businessman…but did he leave his brains at home ..

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87athleticbrown7size - 21 Jul, 2025 - 02:38PM

I don't have an IE despite being here for sometime.
But if I do get it will be military standard discrete. It's just for 2 minds and bodies and nobody else.
Funny that people take it granted and risk everything to get blown out.

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marklondonengland - 21 Jul, 2025 - 01:41PM

It's ridiculous to go to a big show with someone you are not supposed to be out with. If you are at a big show near to where you live then it's highly likely you will see a friend or neighbour there. This is basic stuff. Keep the illicit meets to quiet restaurants or pubs - not stadium concerts!

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Pep214 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 01:18PM

Good rules.

Here we go 693 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 01:11PM

@Lofe is a beach

Thanks for clearing that one up for me.

Talk about rookie error! I've been to loads of gigs, large and small miles from where I live and invariably bump into someone I know. Keep it. On the low key. They will probably be on the big fat quiz of the year!!!

Life is a beach - 21 Jul, 2025 - 12:46PM

For those of you who missed it. It was on many news sites yesterday.
A couple having an affair appeared on big screen at a Cold Play gig, they tried to hide, only for the singer to say, they are either very shy or are having an affair...
I was once on a train with my IE, there was a man playing the guitar and singing. He was so good that people started recording, we swiftly moved away from him!
Don't go you any places near you.
Be mindful when in public places.
Look after yourself and your IE.
Don't take any risks or go anywhere where you can bump into people who may know either of you.
Don't take any risks.
Last but not least, don't take your IE to any gigs where you can appear on the big screen tfor the whole world see! 😜😅🤣

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laugar164 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 11:31AM

1 agree with you IE what you both want and don't want out of the relationship and your boundary's
2 keep to the agreed boundary's at all times
3 don't get caught
4 don't get caught
5 don't get caught
6 if you do get caught don't drag you IE into it remember they too have another life and didn't enter into an affair to destroy it

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SirrahNek - 21 Jul, 2025 - 10:18AM

1. Don’t date too close to where you live, and remember that you might still bump into someone you know even very far from where you live.
2. Find somewhere discreet, and better yet, totally private for your shows of affection to each other.
3. Have a plausible excuse for late evenings and weekends away.
4. Set your red lines in advance. What do you both want, what do neither of you want?
5. Don’t go to a Coldplay concert. Although that might be more down to personal taste than risk!

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Here we go 693 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 09:36AM

Can you explain what happened for those of us not in the Coldplay loop?

MyGameMyRules - 21 Jul, 2025 - 09:35AM

I see the attractive of going out in public.. of holding hands and holding your couple out in the wild. but doing it in front of thousands of people, even if they hadn't gotten caught by the cam, is asking for it. changes are you'll be seen by someone you know. if you've reached that point its cos you, even subconsciously, want to get caught. so maybe it'll end up benign good for them. they have the money, they can afford to walk into the sunshine. families are going to get over it, tho it'll get worse before it gets better.