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marklondonengland - 22 May, 2025 - 01:04PM

You should be upfront about it so you filter out the deranged idiots who think that sex needs to be a challenging marathon to be fun. I did once meet an IE who had pain from osteoporosis and we had a lot of fun together and have remained in touch even though she is now too unwell to consider anything intimate. If you are with someone who has imagination then there is no end of pleasure you can give each other - it does not need to involve any lampshades...

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Paula99 - 22 May, 2025 - 12:35PM

You and only you know the amount of pain/discomfort you are experiencing….None of us are getting any younger but I am sure there are some that will treat you with the respect that you deserve..
Happy hunting ♥️

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Here we go 693 - 22 May, 2025 - 09:30AM

Firstly, I'm sorry to hear you're in souch pain. My mum had rheumatoid arthritis and was also in a lot of pain. I hope you're getting good treatment.
When you find someone you want to meet, I would be open about it, but alsoale it clear it doesn't mean you're dead or anything. I know there are plenty of players on here, but I would like to think there are also men with integrity, compassion (as well as passion) and sensitivity. Someone like that wouldn't let it bother them. As to how easy it is to find, that's anyone's guess! I wish you all the luck in finding someone who understands you, for who you are and what you can do, rather than what you can't do xx

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