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Amandi1712 - 25 Jul, 2025 - 02:34PM

Whatever your age, marriage can just lose its shine in the bedroom. I would encourage anyone of any age to relight that fire and get the butterflies in the stomach with an affair. As long as no one gets hurt and discreetness and trust is assured.

I also think as a man a 65 year old women who looks after themselves can be far more attractive than a women 10 years her younger. Happy searching and go for it.

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Anntihg - 25 Jul, 2025 - 01:55PM

Yes that’s true

Purple dreamer - 25 Jul, 2025 - 12:38PM

Do not think there should be !!! As long as your not hoping to find someone much younger unless you want a toy boy/girl

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Ren Faire Lady - 25 Jul, 2025 - 12:16PM

Any age is perfect !
I believe that our lives should be measured experientially.
Nobody ever says one of their life regrets is having too many fun and sensual experiences.

As a side note - if we divide the cost of long term marital life by the number of sexual experiences within the marriage - then two lovers who willingly meet the needs of each other at any age seems like a much more worthwhile investment.

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New Yorker - 25 Jul, 2025 - 11:35AM

I feel like there is an age limit in the other direction. As a man who has always been attracted to much older women and their inherent maturity, I actually find it uncomfortable to be with much younger women

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SirrahNek - 25 Jul, 2025 - 11:26AM

Yes. Under 18 and dead. Those are the hard lower and upper limits. Individual preferences will be within that range.

But we come here to find intimacy. Intimacy doesn’t necessarily mean penetrative sex. It could be kissing. It could be cuddling. What we need varies from one person to another - so it doesn’t need to be an impediment once our bits and bobs don’t work as they once did.

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Samgold - 25 Jul, 2025 - 11:16AM

age is only a number. What's important is how you feel inside. In your heart and mind, whether you're after a mental stimulation or a sexual adventure. For the latter, a certain pill might need to be used, if you are a male :-)

Saying all this. I am putting myself out there. I am looking for both. Read my profile, if it sparks something sending me a message.

Have a lovely day wherever you are.

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Caz1975 - 25 Jul, 2025 - 10:47AM

It really depends on the individual, whilst sex is the goal 🤣 for most! Mental connection is as important to me, despite understanding what this is. My affairs have involved dinner, drinks etc, you have to have things in common to chat about. Maybe it’s just me 😂 Otherwise I’d just pay for sex. So I guess age isn’t as important as connection and who the individual is. That’s why I think meeting quickly is the way forward

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Bikerbaddboy25 - 24 Jul, 2025 - 07:29PM

I hope not couples live together for a long time. I still love my partner. But the sexual spark went out when the menopause kicked in.

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laugar164 - 22 Jul, 2025 - 10:21AM

Enigma
Alas no…
It’s all me, me, me and the size of their penis and shape of their

Is that were I am going wrong 🤷

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