Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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1408586 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 07:41PM
I’m wondering if the OP would have preferred if his wife had decided on a discreet affair rather than this way?
Never easy
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FluffyClouds - 04 Jul, 2024 - 07:18PM
Swinging is swinging. Open relationship is not swinging.
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Paula99 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 05:27PM
Aim to please48…
…I hope she realises before this all goes tits up after 26 years …what a good guy you are …😀
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 04:46PM
Oh, and I’m, we’re definitely NOT!! Experimenting with swinging, that is a totally different thing than an open relationship. We hate the idea of seeing one another with someone else.
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 04:44PM
Luminescent, I literally took it out only this morning because of some advice from someone else.
I would let anyone know who actually responds to my messages within the first couple of replies.
1682268 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 03:59PM
Aim to please 48
Why does your profile not mention a single word of all this? Youve put up a profile as if youre just one man looking for one woman for an affair?
If you connect with someone, when are you proposing to spring it on her that "actually me and the missus are experimenting with swinging and you sound ideal".
Good luck with that one.
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1683179 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 03:39PM
I would say be honest in your profile, it may not attract lots of attention, but it will attract the right attention, and therefor the right person.
I am not to everyone's taste - yet, over the years, there is always one person for whom I am exactly what they are looking for, and vice versa.
You also have to remember - women could put nothing in their profile , no words at all, and be bombarded.....it's not a reflection on you, it is sadly a reflection on (not all) men...
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 03:10PM
Enigma, yes you’re probably right. Unfortunately I’m the fool that suggested the idea and as I said when we were having the conversation I’d rather have some of her than none. We’ve been together over 26yrs now and she’s my best and actually very sad to say it, but only real friend. I think I may well be stuck between a rock and a hard place. If I asked her to stop with IE etc she would but unfortunately and sadly that would be the beginning of the end.
Enigma.. - 04 Jul, 2024 - 02:51PM
@Aim to please48
I’m a plain speaker.
Just seems to me that your wife wants her cake and eat it.
Regardless of how you feel emotionally etc…
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