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Paula99 - 12 Jul, 2024 - 05:19AM

AimToPlease48….

I answered your original question on the 4th July ..😁

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1468475 - 11 Jul, 2024 - 11:57PM

Everyone probably missed your query because they were diverted by the situation you described . It’s definitely unusual . But to answer your question I don’t think mentioning it and being upfront is helping you get replies or interest . Mainly because people possibly can foresee some complications .. It’s all an unknown quantity as to what will transpire ! Especially now you’ve said your situation isn’t as simple as spicing up your marriage !

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kevh1geeza - 11 Jul, 2024 - 11:36PM

im in deffo

Aim to please48 - 10 Jul, 2024 - 10:50AM

Everyone seems to be missing the original question, but that doesn’t matter now. It’s all good anyway 😊
But it’s a little more complicated than being able to just spice things up at home, Emerald Dream.
Obviously there’s a whole lot of people that won’t understand the situation and everyone is entitled to their opinions. Either way, looking forward to seeing what tge future holds. Hope everyone finds what they’re looking for on here and are happy in whatever they get up to😉🤗

1468475 - 10 Jul, 2024 - 01:44AM

I hope you have thought this through and established some ground rules for your open relationship . It’s already irking you that your wife is attracting more attention than you . I agree with others and think to avoid problems in your marriage you need to look for another way to spice things up , preferably together as a couple . Short term thrills can be managed better via other avenues together .

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CinqA7-69 - 09 Jul, 2024 - 09:05PM

Sorry that was the wrong thread

CinqA7-69 - 09 Jul, 2024 - 09:05PM

There are many risks having an affair outside work. In today’s workplace, romance is an even more dangerous game. However it is incredibly horny. I would love to have sex in my office up against the window. I did invite my wife to do that but she declined. 😕 (she isn’t a co-worker).
However the consequences of it turning sour are very severe. I think the only reasonable situation where it might be safe is in roles where people move around departments and locations on a relatively regular basis so that there can be a natural end, or an ongoing affair without the prying eyes of the colleagues.

CherryStiletto - 07 Jul, 2024 - 03:19PM

I think that couples embracing ethical non-monogamy is really healthy for a marriage and as long as you are strong communicators it is a great direction to go in.

As others have said, it's a woman's domain on here so she will get more attention. Personally I've enjoyed being part of an ENM relationship, his wife even baked me gingerbread one Christmas!

I'd not be put off at all, but for some, maybe the secrecy is a turn on for them and the fact that you are openly non-monogamous could take away that for them.

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AsianGent1986 - 06 Jul, 2024 - 03:52PM

Dude. It’s a women’s marketplace. Surely you are not so naive to think you would garner anywhere near the attention your wife would. It doesn’t even matter if you are the more attractive one. A 2/10 would get more attention from the opposite sex than the typical man. Frankly you have made a grave grave mistake in opening up your relationship in this way and you would have been better off full swapping with other couples (swinging) than the route you have taken.

I truly weep for how naive you are. Dare I say you’ve stuck the last nail in to your marriage and the writing is on the wall.

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Enigma.. - 06 Jul, 2024 - 03:04PM

There are those on Flirt Forum that offer good advice.
Share experiences.
And there are those that comment…. Usually in a positive way.
Those that don’t take heed… 😏😂🤔😉

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