Needle in a Haystack
It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?
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Scousejack - 09 May, 2024 - 12:15AM
The picture on the profile does not look like the real thing when you go off site. So it’s a put off,
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TRGCEO - 07 May, 2024 - 09:12PM
The game is vastly different depending on your sex too. For men, yes it's a lot more difficult if you're not the ideal guy but play to your strengths.
For women its not a case of having difficulty finding men, its finding the right guy. They'll be swamped with messages from all sorts of people and I'm guessing it can be exhausting.
Tbf my only experience here is with one woman who friendzoned me (not that i mind, always good to make new friends!) So not the best judge lol
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ExoticOrchid - 06 May, 2024 - 10:02PM
P99 - 09:02PM
Possibly but then those "ladies" expect/demand the men give their passwords.
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Paula99 - 06 May, 2024 - 09:02PM
There are many reasons why women don’t want to swap their pws at the onset of the conversation…
Discretion is at the top of the list …and let’s face it we all have ‘smart phones’ that make tea and chat with God…so we are relying on our pictures not being ‘screen shot ‘…
Some of the ladies on here are in professions that need to be hidden away
So have some respect for those that are not willing to negotiate their pws straight away …if she is genuine then you will get your reward..😁
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HenryH76 - 06 May, 2024 - 08:39PM
I’m having a similar experience. Spend an age chatting then swap pw then they say not my type. My prof pic shows my hair and upper body in a shirt so there’s not much of a surprise. My description says rugby players body and I’m 47.
I do think, even though a lot of women say No pw early on it would just save a whole heap of time wasted and then you know you’re chatting to someone it’s worth investing time in.
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Pink Eiga - 06 May, 2024 - 07:54PM
Enigma.. - 06 May, 2024 - 10:57AM
When those messages come in, I just assume they aren’t really serious. Always happy to be proven wrong of course. 🚂🚎✈️
aggyakacja - 06 May, 2024 - 06:27PM
So imagine you have problems with your look,
I'm also struggling because everyone wants lady with model looks. Generally I'm little bit overweight, big ass and small breasts and if I send someone photo, sorry no my type
Steelblueyes77 - 06 May, 2024 - 12:20PM
Its true as Enigma says .. READ THE BL**DY PROFILE ....
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Enigma.. - 06 May, 2024 - 10:57AM
Pink Eiga
All I seem to get through are messages from males who live in Ireland, Northern Ireland, Wales, England and parts of Scotland that are outwith reasonable travelling distance.
I had a male who lives in Devon messaged me on Saturday, who very clearly had not read my profile, asking me to meet him for coffee!?!
Sure… give me about eight hours and I’ll join you lol 😂😝🤷🏼♀️🙄
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shaved_dave - 06 May, 2024 - 09:16AM
If someone ran numbers its highly likely probability of finding the rightone for a person is very low. Too many variables to satisfy...thats why most we get to know here dont work out...but give it time if you are patience enough youll find the person or you might grow tired of this which ever comes first
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