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Funguy77 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 12:13PM

How has that ever turned on anyone in history.
😂

But each too our own right x

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1447655 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 12:03PM

"Bet you a tenner I do her"

- would have been a hard slap or at least a drink in the face from me. Or might just have got off with his mate instead, just to rub his smug face in it. 🤷‍♀️

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Onekissmore - 23 Aug, 2023 - 11:16AM

Have you had many dates / any success on here .

I mean 😂🙈

Beckysharp - 23 Aug, 2023 - 10:47AM

I would not have found that flattering at all Abbie! I’m sure it was meant nicely though

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boav91 - 23 Aug, 2023 - 09:00AM

Abbie that is funny. I wonder if others that would make them run to the hills.

Reading the rest I think you have to really learn to love yourself first and not rely on this place to do that for you. It has the tendency to play to underlying insecurities if you allow it. You cannot confuse infatuation and initial intimacy with love. Whilst that can come later expected or not, if you are looking for that to self actualise you , you open yourself up to hurt when it fails as it also impacts on your sense of who you are. Love yourself first and what I tried to learn last time, still crap at taking my own advice, is dont try to hard. If you know your own worth, you are shielded a little.

I do have to say I love it when the woman in the conversation is flirty and lets that side of me come out. Sometimes with so little to go on it is hard to know the boundaries people expect.

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AbbieO - 23 Aug, 2023 - 05:50AM

I obviously like the usual stuff.
Guys telling me what i am and what I want and what I’m gonna get etc.

But the biggest turn on ever was a time I was flirting with a guy at a party. I went to powder my nose and on way back I could hear him taking bets from his mates
“I bet you a tenner I do her” etc.
OMG. So hot x

Paula99 - 22 Aug, 2023 - 06:26PM

Mark Watson affair …

That’s a bucket full of bollox if I have ever heard one ..talk about making excuses for his behaviour…😂

We are all here for different reasons but putting a label on it just makes him sound like a prick …🙄

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Juicyju1970 - 22 Aug, 2023 - 03:33PM

Get your knickers off 😉😘

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1529050 - 22 Aug, 2023 - 11:41AM

Sandypops - 22 Aug, 2023 - 02:55AM

OK, I mean at times we cannot control our feelings and they do spiral.

As others will tell you, I am one who will say go on lots of first meets, if nothing comes of it, it is a pleasant hour or so. You must not or should not feel any pressure to go further unless you feel comfortable.

I think I knew pretty early on when I found the one I wanted to take things further with, and yes there were meets that weren't great on both sides, but I am not one to just settle, we risk too much, so it needs to be right.

And Sandy you are NEVER second best remember that

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logicboy - 22 Aug, 2023 - 09:36AM

Turn on if she turns to me midway through the evening and, looking into my eyes smiling she sincerely says: "you are not special"

Explanation: for reference see article in the independent today about Mark Watson and why he had a 3-year long affair. There's plenty of heartache in how that played out and food for thought, but Mark's explanation of having an affair to avoid confronting the fact that he wasn't as successful as he wanted to be and that he wasn't special...

So why / how would saying this be a turn on to me? If you can understand or imagine why then your my type of person.