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Performance Ratings???


I read something in the papers recently about people secretly giving performance ratings to their lovers and it made me think. Do you do that?  Also, if your lover is insecure enough to ask, would you be honest or would you say of course you are top rated to make them feel better? Discuss!

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Beckysharp - 22 May, 2023 - 09:29AM

I don’t give marks out of 10! But I would be able to rank from best to worst. My current lover being best obviously 😉

If someone asked me for feedback on their performance I would find that very off putting though. Sex should be mutual to be fully enjoyed

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tonicwithice - 22 May, 2023 - 09:25AM

Marks out of ten? I'd give 'em one.

That's got that out of the way! More seriously I think it's a little bit odd as it takes 2 to tango. That said I'm sure there are some people out there with a spreadsheet and/or an improvement plan with a SMART objective.


Pete likes wine - 22 May, 2023 - 09:25AM

OMG what a topic! We are surrounded by performance metrics in all ways through life - so no I detest the idea of giving my lover or my lover giving me a performance rating - but I am not adverse to hearing that wasn't as good as when you did x y and z and vice versa etc - because that way you understand you lover better and help meet there inner desires but no not ratings!!

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