Living in the shadow
I have come to realise in my marriage that my husband is trying to recreate
what he had with his wife of 30 years who died a few years ago, with me.
I'm interested in finding out if there are men and/or women here trying to
recreate what the had with their spouses rather than starting a brand new
relationship?
Any tips on dealing with this situation.
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Delicious Chaos - 15 Feb, 2023 - 10:21AM
Good lord!
Speak to him and tell him you’re not that wife
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1543989 - 15 Feb, 2023 - 09:44AM
For me, every relationship is different.
Obviously, being on this site, I’m looking for something very different from my current relationship.
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Bslooking - 15 Feb, 2023 - 09:22AM
Best thing would be to talk about it with him to make sure it's both what you want
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Full English - 15 Feb, 2023 - 09:13AM
Interesting thread; we are driven by learned behaviours and seek consistency, so perhaps that’s why this is happening in your world … what have you done to discuss this with your husband …?
I guess it may be happening because it can be difficult to let go and move on, so subconsciously people try to recreate as it is normality.
My tips would be to speak to him and see whether he is aware that this is what he is doing and share how you feel … then have an affair lol 😂😂😂
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