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1506940 - 09 May, 2022 - 05:01PM

Not a good idea at work. What are her expectations? Flirting can just be friendliness or real flirting because they feel safe and don't expect you to do anything about it coz you're married. If you made a move she might expect you to progress the relationship and leave your wife, if she is single.

Here, we are clear, nsa fun or fun and romance but definitely no life/marriage changing affair. Much safer on IE. Singles here don't expect the married one to leave their spouse, in fact don't even want that at all. Singles are here and not match.com for the reason they understand and like this set up.

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1514809 - 09 May, 2022 - 04:39PM

It’s tricky. Once you talk about it then it’s forever out there. I say do what feels right, but think about how it might feel or be like on the other side, assuming you have a thing with her and then it ends at some point. Is that something you want to be hanging over you at work until either one of you leave?
Listen to your heart and try to ignore your penis - if the risk is worth it go for it.

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1382700 - 09 May, 2022 - 11:53AM

Well you could just ask her!!!

What does it matter anyway. You’re on a cheat site so are you hoping she is or isn’t married

gemini2310 - 09 May, 2022 - 11:06AM

It can be very tricky getting involved with someone you work with I did it years ago.When it ends you also lose them as a colleague and a friend.He became very bitter towards me and people at work do gossip but each to there own that was just my experience so never again for me.

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1490598 - 09 May, 2022 - 10:33AM

Depends on the person I guess. Mine meant we mutually split and I thought we were just friends like we were before then one day out of the blue she just stopped talking to me completely with no explanation.🤷🏽‍♂️

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Blueeyes34 - 09 May, 2022 - 09:34AM

The only way to find out is to make a move. He who hesitates is lost.

Our Day Will Come - 09 May, 2022 - 09:15AM

I used to meet most of my girlfriends at or through work. These days… you’d have to be very careful because an unwelcome comment could land you in a lot of trouble.

Best to stick to online, where just by being here someone is saying they’re open to being chatted up.

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1521008 - 09 May, 2022 - 09:10AM

You probably spend more time with you colleague than you do at home. I always found that if there is an attraction it will show up at a night out. This can be great but also trouble if your in a position of management. Best thing to do is talk to her. You will soon know if she’s into you.

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1117169 - 09 May, 2022 - 08:48AM

From personal experience women colleagues tend to give out subtle signs, and sometimes not so subtle, when they find a colleague attractive. They expect the man to pick up on them and respond in some form, though lots of men are not good at reading them. She may be just being friendly or flirtatious of course, and these days its a potential minefield in the workplace if the man acts on them.

Why don't you choose a discreet moment and tell her she has a lovely smile and ask her what makes her seem so happy. Nobody could take that the wrong way. She will either clam up with embarrassment or give you a stronger hint about what she has in mind with you, if anything.

You can then play it by ear but bear in mind that workplace affairs / romances can turn out very sour and damaging very quickly and other colleagues will pick up on it very quickly too. They can also turn into wonderful relationships but if one or both of you are married, and I assume you are, it will have major long term costs and consequences

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