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Can attraction not just be physical?

I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?

Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2024 - 08:48PM

gh - 08:36 PM

A whole kilo of cherries 🍒 🍒🍒 ??? They are expensive you know!!! 😲


giggly hamster - 19 Mar, 2024 - 08:36PM

If he's into boobs that much, I'm one of the biggest tits I know.

50p and a kilo of cherries and I'm anybody's. If I hold my breath and make my head go red he'll think it's a massive nipple and I get to have the top of my heed licked and sucked clean.

And yes EmnEmnEmnEmnemenenemememenememem one of the above statements may be an exaggeration


ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2024 - 08:18PM

EnE123 - 03:57PM

I think the problem OP has is that the lady in question "pretended" she has (by wearing a padded bra I'm assuming) therefore the OP is disappointed.

The same way a woman expecting a substantial
"package" on the man is disappointed when she discovers extra padding has been used. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Toffee.macchiato4 - 19 Mar, 2024 - 07:17PM

Woww interesting question baffling almost
I honesty think that you’re not attracted to her
Nothing wrong or shameful in that
We like what we like
Perhaps it would have been much better to tell her this before the ………😊
She would have recognised the gentleman in you.
It’s not too late though. I say tell her
Don’t be that guy, just be honest with yourself and with her. But then again WTF do I know 🙂


EmnEm123 - 19 Mar, 2024 - 03:57PM

I think the point is that the OP is accusing the lady of lying to him, has she claimed to have big boobs?

The OP is entitled to his preferences but I don't see how any sort of padding would make a woman that much bigger, surely it would look fake?

As for the comment from Suzanne that nothing matters but personality and cleanliness, who wants to have sex with a big fat guy? Some would, granted, I doubt many!

As someone once said, 'it would be like being fallen on by a wardrobe with the key still in the lock'!

Of course attraction matters!🤔

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2024 - 03:00PM

Penistone???
Thank you autocorrect!!!

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2024 - 02:46PM

Having read various female profiles plus various female comments here from time to time, some do specify the size of a man's "crown jewels" therefore can we stop with all the sanctimonious comments here to the OP (whether or not this is a wind-up).

Not all males/females are shallow but it is a fact that women have breast implants to have bigger breasts and if such a procedure exists, no doubt men would have Penistone implants too!

Wonderful to see there are so many non-judgemental members (no pun intended!) commenting here. Just read random threads/comments on the Forum and the hypocrisy is glaringly obvious! 🙄

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Gentle Man Jim - 19 Mar, 2024 - 12:28PM

@Suzanne
Listen (or read) to Becjysharp!
I’m a man and I love boobies! I will argue with you, they do have a function when it comes to sex, however, big, small, whatever, our bodies I believe are as you comment on manhood! It’s how you are and how you use it that matters.
Nothing is less arousing than what is perceived as physical perfection with a bad attitude!
A lovely lady with the right attitude is far more attractive than anything physical…….. and I think I’m relatively shallow!!!!
In the post fake? No idea but it’s not at all what I believe is the common belief of men.

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Beckysharp - 19 Mar, 2024 - 11:36AM

@Suzanne please don’t feel self conscious. This is a spoof post and definitely not how men think

Read all the replies from men on here saying it’s crazy and fake

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Tillymintz - 19 Mar, 2024 - 11:12AM

Were you upfront about wanting large breasts to fulfill your sexual desires?

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