Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?
Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?
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1506277 - 24 Mar, 2022 - 12:14PM
Definitely always have lube to hand. Here are a couple of reasons:
* It adds to the pleasure. A dab of lube on the finger, and suddenly you're gliding, where before you were rubbing. Oh so pleasurable for her, which raises the fun for me. I'm SO selfish :)
* For myself, I only recently discovered the pleasure of your lady pushing her finger against the back door, hugely erotic (literally ...). At this rate, I might even try pegging!
* Time of the month. Sometimes, things are, well, just a little less well lubricated!
* Mood. It changes, as above. We want to, but we've things on our minds. A little help doesn't hinder.
* Quickies. Come on, sometimes we simply have to, and we might not be entirely ready. Or ...
* It's not unknown for a lady to not be in the mood, but still wants to please her lover, especially if you can only rarely get together.
I'm sure there are other reasons!
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1481586 - 23 Mar, 2022 - 03:45PM
I'm with Naughty but Niche......Coconut oil is perfect.....not too 'lubey'....I understand that some people also cook with it!
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1473584 - 23 Mar, 2022 - 11:50AM
Lube is a great foreplay aid too it’s not just about penetration….. especially if you use toys 😉.
I use it all the time and trust me being wet isn’t an issue for me, it just adds to the pleasure x
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Fluffy Sunshine - 22 Mar, 2022 - 08:29AM
I’d forgotten the lube once with my partner at the time who liked a strap on . I made do with shampoo that was provided by the hotel. He got in a bit of a lather.
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Macali76 - 22 Mar, 2022 - 07:42AM
Looking4my 50 shades
Your a convert to bum play? Don't mind bum.play it's erotic as you said.
Anything that enhances your sexual experiences is welcomed
Lube, toys or whatever tickles your fancy 🤣🤣
1117169 - 21 Mar, 2022 - 11:01PM
I always do. The sump gasket on my 40 year old hearing aid beige Ford Fiesta 1.1 has become leaky and I keep 5L of Car Plan 20/50 in the boot so I can keep it topped up.
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1512065 - 21 Mar, 2022 - 09:34PM
Use what's needed for both of you x
Looking4my50shades - 20 Mar, 2022 - 04:39PM
Omg always have lube on hand, you never know where things might lead too, it's not everyone's cup of tea but bum play can be erotic and fun but lube is needed
kindpassion - 18 Mar, 2022 - 11:51AM
I wouldn’t be offended, I bring it with me as a matter of course. Nothing to do with age, more a question of width 😅. Anything that helps anybody enjoy the moment has got to be good !
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