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I like being a mistress...

I was married for a while and when I divorced I decided that relationships aren’t for me. I can’t be doing with all of the angst and insecurities. In 20 years I have been the mistress/lover of 4 men. I like being a mistress. Just great sex and no laundry!! Your thoughts please. X

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Imneverg - 29 Sep, 2021 - 05:38PM

I'm a attached man i think you have the best of both worlds there. i would really like that type of arrangement.

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Easy-going2 - 27 Sep, 2021 - 09:17AM

Sounds amazingly cool

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1368604 - 26 Sep, 2021 - 05:48PM

I love my husband, he is kind and a wonderful father but I just can't get from him what I need sexually. I've been so lucky to have had some wonderful affairs but it seems logistics always get in the way. I suppose if I was single this would make it easier so I accept there has to be give and take.

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Keeley345 - 26 Sep, 2021 - 03:37PM

Continuing my comments...
A good friend of mine when I was 18 going on 19 encouraged me to stop worrying what society thought of my attraction to married men (MM). I was very attracted to married men and vice versa. Id get flirted with and asked out alot by married guys and I loved it! But I was worried what society would say? I then became good friends with a girl 4 years older than me and she liked and dated married men. She couldn't give a F what society thought but of course was discreet and secretive with her relationships with married men. She encouraged me to enjoy the attention from MM and accept offers of dates. With her encouragement too, I started internet dating and I've had success. I've met some wonderful men and women too (I'm bi). I'm happy with MM and it's a lifestyle that I've chosen and suits me fine. Of course it's a secretive lifestyle because it has to be, but I'm happy.

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Keeley345 - 26 Sep, 2021 - 03:25PM

I'm single with no kids and have always been. I don't like commitment and enjoy being single. But there's times when I want sex, male attention. But nothing more serious than that. I've always been attracted to married men and really only date guys who are attached. I know discretion is VERY important! And I'm not looking for my married boyfriends to leave their wives. Why? Because I don't want them full time! Part time relationships suit me. I've had serious long-term relationships with married men and they were amazing. They ended because the wives became suspicious or they just fizzled out. One guy did decide he wanted to leave his wife for me. I didn't ask him too so that ruined our arrangement and to me these are mutual arrangements that if conducted well, they can last for years. My arrangements did. A number of my married boyfriends referred to what We were doing as lifestyle choices. It's a lifestyle we mutually seek.

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MsDollyDaisy - 26 Sep, 2021 - 01:39PM

I loved being a mistress in my youth before I got married and fell into the conventional norm. It was exciting I was spoilt and spicy

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PecanPie - 26 Sep, 2021 - 12:41PM

@Bukowski69... great until she likes you too much and wants more from the relationship. I think when both parties have something at stake then it becomes easier to draw the line.

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RaymondBianco - 26 Sep, 2021 - 10:11AM

Sounds like fun, seems you've got the mix correct for you.

I can see the attraction.


Gil_lette43 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 09:10PM

You have made me think now… maybe I should become one :) currently lors of laundry, personal restrictions and no sex at home lol 🤣 thank you for the tip, lovely lady xx

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Bukowski69 - 05 Sep, 2021 - 06:12PM

From a married man's side: I am wondering if an unmarried mistresses, probably divorced, would be best. No stress of her husband finding out and therefore easier to maintain a good relationship.

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