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Skatie70 - 24 May, 2021 - 09:50PM

Really until you physically see someone, I think you should carry on chatting to others, as once you meet you might not click, then you’re back to the start 😏

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1329251 - 24 May, 2021 - 12:53PM

I'll be brutally honest with them, I don't cancel all communication, but I let people know if I'm meeting someone, think I owe them that. The decision to stay in touch I'll leave up to them xx

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ExoticOrchid - 24 May, 2021 - 12:26PM

Just be open and tell them all that you are chatting with others too.

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Pete likes wine - 24 May, 2021 - 12:05PM

Just be truthful - take the higher moral ground if it doesn't work there is always a tomorrow!
Simples

Enigma.. - 24 May, 2021 - 11:42AM

Take your time and definitely keep your options open.
Don’t rush into an affair unless you are 100% certain that both yourself and your Ie are singing off the same hymn sheet. Both commitment wise and exclusivity wise.
Better safe than sorry x

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1447499 - 24 May, 2021 - 11:38AM

Couldn't agree more with @Sortster1200L

However....

It does get a little difficult when more than one potential IE recommends meeting at the same time as the other, so I guess your finest decision making skills need to come into play (flip a coin etc) and pray you made the right choice!

(Just so we're clear - this only happened to me once and I should have chosen 'heads')

Enigma.. - 24 May, 2021 - 11:16AM

@Sportster1200L

Couldn’t have put it better myself.
I wish men on here would read profiles properly. There are a lot of players and time wasters on this site and I figured that out within a week of joining lol.

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1117169 - 24 May, 2021 - 10:42AM

Keep chatting to everyone and your options open until you have actually met your first choice at least once and preferably more and you are certain and you both agree that you want exclusivity. Only then let the others down gently and politely by saying that you have met someone and wish them good luck. Ghosting is unacceptable.

Dont pull the plug on the others prematurely. You may regret it.

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