IE has made me a lot more body positive
The lack of intimacy and affection at home made me begin to believe that I was no longer attractive - how very wrong I was. It has been life changing reclaiming my sexual sovereignty and the power and energy that comes with it. Can anyone else relate?
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1434440 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 03:59PM
to add to my comment below. I think there is an additional presure on body image for women. I think the fact that women have children does have an affect on there body and things like post natal depression can feed into this negative body image. If your partner is not 100% suppportive of you then you will at some point seek someone who is going to look at you and desire you with no complications or responsibilities.
1434440 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 03:56PM
I guess we easily forget. When you first get together with someone everything is amazing, everything is fun. As you progress you start getting cetain responsibilities. You start to live together, you start having to pay bills. The time you have for each other then decreases. Then kids come along and your whole world is no longer about your relationship but bringing up kids. We shouldn't kid (no pun intended) ourselves that it is blooming hardwork. when the kids have grown up a bit it is no wonder we are looking for something to brighten our lives up and remember what it's like to seek pleasure for yourself and meet someone that gives you some identity for yourself again. It's just you realise the years have gone by and you're no longer in your twenties looking youthful. Sex always makes you feel good and any connection like this is really going to boost your self esteem. As for body confidence, I guess there is a bit of that but probably not so much as for women. Fro women they are so much more judged on look
Flirtyfun999 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 03:44PM
All the intimacy at hone has disappeared and at first I thought my sex drive had gone. I’ve discovered through my new fiend that my sex drive is as mad as ever.
I love trying new ideas with new friends
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discerningfitfun - 10 Feb, 2021 - 03:07PM
I think a lot of people find validation for themselves through a fling. Some of this is because of how they perceive themselves.
So this is very relatable.
I found real confidence to take to other aspects of my life.
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1436151 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 01:28PM
I'm more body positive. I'm not scared of saying I'm fat and to be nice I won't get naked so it's a win win for me
1433346 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 12:20PM
@RealAffair Nicely phrased comments
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SunInFlight - 10 Feb, 2021 - 12:00PM
Absolutely..slowly becoming invisible to your partner break your spirit.
An affair is great to give you that extra boost, makev sure your both entering it eyes wide open.
Stay safe gorgeous people.
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1426763 - 10 Feb, 2021 - 11:04AM
Everyone's home life is different and yet a common motivator is to join IE. I'm not 25 anymore and I don't expect anyone attracted to me to be 25 anymore. Am I making an effort to present myself? Yes I am. Encouragement helps. But like many others I'm not looking to jump ship, just an escape when and where we can.
If you end up with an extra spring in your step, what's the harm?
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