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1704344 - 01 Nov, 2024 - 03:40PM

I really appreciate the irony of distance…

I often get one of two outcomes

1) Anyone within 40 miles won’t touch me with a bargepole - often no replies to messages or they drift off
2) Messages from women miles away that say “your profile reads so nicely, you have beautiful eyes, I wish you were closer”

If a few women in group 2 moved to group 1, I might start getting happier. As with many others here, the grass is greener on the other side of a pretty tall fence…

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Clickable Connection - 01 Nov, 2024 - 01:44PM

Enigma

Yeah geography is a pain eh 🤷‍♂️

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Dyork2858 - 01 Nov, 2024 - 01:37PM

10 miles otherwise you are limited to meeting times x

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Enigma.. - 01 Nov, 2024 - 12:13PM

Clickable

If only that was a REAL option lol 😝.

Moving… nope.
Visiting more often could be arranged 😉

Clickable Connection - 01 Nov, 2024 - 12:05PM

Enigma..

Yup you definitely need to move down south, or perhaps visit more often 😂

Enigma.. - 01 Nov, 2024 - 11:28AM

A few timer’s a month!!

North of the border you’ll be lucky if you can find someone who want’s to meet up once a month never mind several times 🙄

That’s it… I’m moving down south as that’s where all the action seems to be 😂😉😁.

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Alex bravo - 01 Nov, 2024 - 10:43AM

For me. It’s worth making the effort. If you’re only meeting a few times a month then it’s well worth it. If you want to meet more during the week it’s a bit more harder. But to book a hotel in the middle so it’s safer and you can actually just be yourselves

Clickable Connection - 01 Nov, 2024 - 08:59AM

Maria Jones
What's the point of meeting some one you don't really like , regardless of the distance?

My thoughts are , it all really depends on how frequently you are prepared to meet a d how much time you think you can spend with eachother.

Eg travelling more than an hour for a couple of hours fun , is not a good use of anyone's time. Doesn't matter how much you like them , this would never be sustainable

On the other hand if you only see eachother once a month and looking for an over night thing , I think 2-3 hours traveling is ok.

Is there anyone out there that has managed to sustain a relationship that involves alot of travelling ? Love to hear your experience

1704344 - 01 Nov, 2024 - 08:54AM

Like many here, an hour or so away isn’t too bad when you’re going to be spending a good day/evening/night together.

The tricky part about a long distance affair is those introductory coffee meetings. You really need to be fairly certain on both sides that it’s worth the trip. Of course it might take a couple or more meetings like this to get to know someone enough to spend money on hotels.

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715299 - 12 Oct, 2020 - 10:12PM

4 hoirs available. 30 miles there, 30 miles back. That's 90 minutes leaving 2.5 hours.