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Having an affair changed my life. The woman I started seeing earlier this year trained for marathons and got me into running.

 What is the biggest lifestyle change that has come out of an affair for you?

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mipaulac - 08 Jul, 2022 - 03:50AM

While working down South I had a fling with a lady who use to do some amateur modelling. Months later a rique pic she had sent me popped up on the computer while I was looking for something for a friend he made a bit of a fuss or who she was drawing my then (bi) wife's attention she exclaimed she's nice love to have some naughty fun with her .....Arrrh I'd already made my excuse for the pic !!!

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Getting2KnowU - 06 Jul, 2022 - 10:23PM

O M G Ethan Teller ...life changing indeed 🙌


Enigma.. - 06 Jul, 2022 - 05:04PM

@Paula99

Yes he should be on the stage….

Cleaning it 😂😉😃😂😋. “That’s the way to do it”…. 😂😉

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1478629 - 05 Jul, 2022 - 02:41PM

Discovered new bands!

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Paula99 - 04 Jul, 2022 - 07:24PM

Ethan_Teller...

...you should be on the stage!!!


Ethan_Teller - 04 Jul, 2022 - 07:11PM

I was never into glove puppets before I had an affair with a woman who worked in local theatre. At first, it was difficult to get used to.all the Punch and Judy noises during sex (and I really hated it when she shouted 'That's The Way To Do It' at the end....but, like I said, life-changing.

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Jul, 2022 - 06:41PM

Enigma - 02:40PM

Absolutely.
When I was married and my husband was having affairs, I could always tell because his habits changed.

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Enigma.. - 04 Jul, 2022 - 02:40PM

The thing with changing your lifestyle or habit's when you start an affair is… does it make your other half become suspicious?
One of my ex partners, out of the blue, started watching certain programs on tv that he had not been interested in before. I discovered a couple of books about various artists that he had no previous interest in, in a cupboard. He joined a gym and there were a couple of other changes as well.
I grew suspicious and finally one night I confronted him. He admitted he was having an affair. A week later I found out who with.
This was several years ago and we are no longer together. His “girlfriend” and her husband are now divorced. Both the husband and I have moved on for the better.
Just pointing out that sudden changes in lifestyle, habits and/or changing your looks/style can/could lead to suspicion and getting caught out….

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Skippy2222 - 04 Jul, 2022 - 02:26PM

Hi All.. new to the chats but…. Being able to look at myself and finally be honest with what’s missing in my life.

We all get on with our lives but its not till we look back or we come to here and we realise life’s past us by. Being on here puts you in control of your life choices, we don’t have to settle for just our current relationship or lack of intimacy

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1509010 - 04 Jul, 2022 - 12:01PM

I value honesty especially in a place like this but @Diana84's "guy" should have stated that he was only interested in sex and not listening or giving a shit about her problems.
Let's be honest from the start.
Diana84, can we spend the hotel money you saved on a manipedi? Or you can spend on a nice, hot stone message, I find it better than sex.

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