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1376887 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 04:03PM

Have realistic expectations. Talk on the telephone, you can tell a lot from a real life conversation. If that goes well, then after lockdown meet somewhere public and have a coffee.

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1262378 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 04:01PM

Hi, you should listen to your gut feelings. Ask the question of your prospective IE, that you're unsure of. Work forward from their reply. If you've actually spoken to this person, are they evasive or give you a wrong answer?

1366640 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 03:44PM

Meet for a drink first before going any further.

1272141 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 03:35PM

Can you weild an axe?
Having put him on a pedestal you might need to knock the sticks out from under his feet.

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MrsDiscreet - 19 Apr, 2020 - 03:34PM

You can’t know. You’ll never know. You just either jump in with both feet and hope for the best or just dip your toe in the water and don’t get to enjoy the thrilling sensation of where your IE could lead.
But do listen to gut instinct if it feels wrong get out.

40870 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 02:16PM

keep it up :)

susan104 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 02:04PM

You can’t tell I have spoke to guys before and we get in great then when we meet there is nothing x

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Bob100 - 19 Apr, 2020 - 12:47PM

In truth I do not think you can certify you gut feelings, the photo may not even be him
and the messages contrived, why ? beyond me!

Delphina - 19 Apr, 2020 - 10:48AM

Its really hard to tell, the only way is to meet them, but with this lockdown, you could be chatting with someone for God knows for how long now, and when you meet u might be dissapointed, the best this to do is not to have high expectations

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You're on my road - 19 Apr, 2020 - 10:26AM

Make use of video chat IF it’s safe, such a great way to see beyond a photo and we all know that you can easily invest a lot of time without knowing if you click. Seeing your potential lover move and talk can help you know 😊 x

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