Advice on sexy texts
Okay, where do I start? I’ve been seeing this man now for a little while, and we started going out on dates just before the country stood still! It was really going great, lots of good food and wine, conversation flowing, flirting, holding hands… I was so eager to see him again! And finally ready to take the next step and be intimate with each other, I cannot even begin to explain the levels of excitement and anticipation. And then WHAM, the virus takes over the world and we can’t meet up. It’s driving me literally insane, I’ve never wanted to see someone so desperately in my life before - it’s crazy. Especially since I was holding off on our first few dates, you know, to build up the suspense. The chemistry is undeniable and I cannot wait to see him again, but in the meantime, he’s been sending me some rather dirty messages, my only problem is, I don’t think I’m terribly good at this all sex text thing. Does anyone have any tips?
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Mews0001 - 17 Apr, 2020 - 03:03PM
Come on people. Why so coy?
Suggest to him that a video chat would be good to break the ice. Keep your clothes on first time, then build it up to who knows what.
It could just be a tease, or full blown cam sex. That's a decision for the both of you.
1037472 - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:59PM
I agree with the need to explain that you feel uncomfortable if the guy is pretty decent guy and keen he will get that you struggle at this point. If he does not get it, them is he the right guy emotionally for you?
1272141 - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:51PM
Dear virgin sex texter. You must take the necessary precautions with such things. Wrap your phone in a standard condom and tie a knot to secure it in place.
Next proceed to within earshot of fire stations army barracks and ships in port. In effect bastions of macho collectives. Where upon you will absorb and delight in talk of the most salacious and obscene kind. Learn these and reproduce in the most genteel and ladylike voice and you will become a sexual delight, and quite possibly an internet sensation.
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1363644 - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:49PM
Lose your inhibitions and forget trying to be clever.
Everyone has fantasies.. for years usually. Close your eyes and let your mind wander. Let'em out! Shyness is for pussies! LOL
Christ people.. take a chance! Rock the damn boat! It's your time.. your life.
Don't waste it on staying hidden. Ask him what he wants to do with you. Emphasis on with! Then tell him what's right and what's a turn off. It will flow.... then so will you! :-)
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open_alternative - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:26PM
agree with frisky and love to please ..
you dont have to be ELJames to indulge in a bit of flirty text and an mmmm! will go a long way !
Let the guy know you haven't done much so he doesn't overwhelm you and see where you go .. as frisky says it can be most enjoyable .
Actually .. i think most people would hope you weren't E L James , heaven forbid any more of that series please
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SAYSomething x - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:04PM
On a serious note, I agree with love to please - be open and honest, and it will come naturally. Just add a little ahhh and a mmmm to your replies haha. Anyway, sex talk doesn't need to actually be dirty, you can start off tame, then work your way up to the naughty stuff.
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SAYSomething x - 17 Apr, 2020 - 02:02PM
Are you kidding me? Sex texts are the best. Ha, wait till you get one when you're least expecting it, you'll have to behave like nothing untoward just happened :'D
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tender_rock - 17 Apr, 2020 - 01:51PM
Tips! There is only one tip... Keep it clean ;)
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1371603 - 17 Apr, 2020 - 11:20AM
The best advice I can think of with 'the sex thing' is open your heart and feelings. Once you do that things will flow for you. Stop worrying about your how you are doing and just enjoy the feelings
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