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Stay Safe!

Our number one priority is the safety of all our members here on IE.

We live in a digital age. Let’s take advantage of the technology around us to build that connection for when we’re next ready to meet up, and what a fabulous time that will be 💋

We all deserve a slice of happiness, and if you’re feeling disheartened or lonely at home right now then you have come to the right place.

We have found an unprecedented amount of male and female members are engaging with each other here on IE and keeping that spark alive.

We wanted to share with you some advice & handy tips for finding romance online.

Top Tips

Safety Online

  • Get a new email account and make up an alias name for discretion.
  • Make sure your phone, tablet or desktop is always password protected.
  • After every session remember to go through the process of deleting all temporary files, cookies, history, forms and passwords. It may be tedious but vital. Alternatively login using incognito mode (private browsing)
  • It’s best to get online when you have some time to yourself. We’ve found what has worked for a lot of our members right now is messaging while in their home office, out in the garden, or even out and about getting some fresh air (whilst social distancing!)
  • Don't part with your personal details until you are absolutely sure the person you are 'dating' is bona fide.

How to maximise your chances at finding that spark

  • Invest some time into your profile. Keep it light and fun. Humour goes a long way. Be descriptive - talk about your interests and hobbies. Remember: Members are interested in finding out a bit more about you, and what the two of you might have in common. Try and stand out from the crowd. If you’re struggling with your profile you can always ask Support for some help.
  • When messaging, make sure your messages are personalised, making use of catchy subject lines - exciting content is guaranteed to get you more attention.
  • Strike up a friendship over the phone, you’d be surprised how much you can learn about someone just by the sound of their voice. There are plenty of phone apps that allow you to use alternative phone numbers that you can change at anytime for example hushed.
  • Get creative. Go on a virtual date. An app that I’m particularly fond of is whereby - you don’t need to swap numbers to use it, you don’t even need to share your email address - just send a link and boom you’re in the same chatroom! It’s fast, discreet and super easy to use.
  • Take things back to basics, getting to know someone and flirting is very rewarding. Wanting to be physical with someone can sometimes be more powerful than the act itself. Allow yourself to be lustful and get excited about the anticipation of meeting soon after the dust settles. Sexting and saucy video calls can also help ignite that passionate flame while you’re apart.
  • Lastly, get involved with Flirt Forum - it’s an awesome way to engage with the wider IE community and to get your profile noticed, you can even send in your own letter to us at letters@illicitencounters.com - we’d love to hear from you!

Stay safe & enjoy getting to know each other!

Sara x

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