A very safe place for like-minded people
Keep all contact on the site, stay as anonymous as you like, and only move forward when you're 100% confident in someone you're chatting to. That way your experience here stays risk-free.
Discretion matters most in an extra-marital relationship, and a genuine member would never ask to move off-site at first contact. When you do take a conversation further, arrange an audio-call before a video chat — the small caution that online dating deserves.
Six things that keep you untraceable
Each one is small. Together they're how thousands of members have stayed completely discreet for over 22 years.
Your email address
When you first register, don't use your usual email address. We recommend creating one from Gmail. Already a member? You can change your email any time from your account settings.
Your username
Choose a username you've never used anywhere else. Avoid anything that references your real name or any nickname that could lead back to you.
Your real name & billing
We never ask for your real name on the website. If you upgrade, only minimal details are needed to take payment. Card data is encrypted and no payment data is held on our servers.
Your password
Use a password you don't use anywhere else. Make sure it isn't a memorable word and ideally contains upper and lowercase characters, numbers, and even symbols.
Your bank statement
If you do upgrade, our name will not appear on your bank statement. Instead you will see a discreet descriptor — never "Illicit Encounters".
Encrypted data
Your email address and any messages you send are fully encrypted. In the highly unlikely event of a data breach, the information would be unreadable — just gobbledygook.
That's it. These steps will guarantee you don't get caught out using our website. We hope you enjoy your time on IE in safety, confidence and total anonymity.
Once you're registered, follow these tips on your first few interactions and your account stays untraceable.
Happy encounters,
Sara x
Quick reference
- Email: use a brand-new Gmail address
- Username: one you've never used elsewhere
- Real name: we never ask for it
- Password: long, unique, mixed characters
- Statement: never reads "Illicit Encounters"
- Data: encrypted end-to-end
- Keep first contact on-site — not on WhatsApp or email
- Audio-call before video, every time
Have a safety question? Contact our UK team →
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